What are the signs that you are not in tune with your highest self? Are you feeling drained and negative toward yourself or others? You forget who you are about? These are real signs that you are not living in the present moment. First, ask what are your thoughts about? then you will connect why you are feeling this way. The thoughts are powerful and when you are not aware where they are, you become a victim of unconsciousness. Being conscious you have to constantly become in tune and aware of where your mind, body and spirit is right now. When we get distracted of our regular stuff that comes our way, we forget to connect to our highest self. Living spirituality in a physical dimension is quite a challenge and every moment serves us realities where we are in this dimension.

Realizing I’m out of tune, connected my self in meditation. I found the answer to this misalignment. When surrounded by all these people from work, home and the world I found my self lost in their world. Before I can be in tune, I need to see my self in a different space of negative situations. Then I concur that where I am is where my thoughts are. I found that I was swayed from one situation to another. Being centered I found my self back. Where it brings me back to that space of silence and peace. This is who I am, the stillness in the midst of chaos. But I will only know when I become aware of my thoughts. My thoughts create my reality and this is where I am. The observer is connected to the experience, who am I without this observer? A body, without a spirit? The wisdom is being connected to the observer and become one with my body, mind and spirit.

This connection brings about this positive energy and create a wonderful meaning to my life and others that touches me. Every being that comes to me feel the love that I have within my heart for humanity. My life becomes a beautiful book that I want to create, let go of the past painful experiences that I had and live one day at a time living my highest self. You create whatever is in your plate, you also have the power to choose what you’re going to put in that plate. The universal law of cause and effect, my choices will reflect these things that is within me and my external realities.

Live, love and laugh! There is nothing worst than finding out that you’re in your death bed and it just occurs to you that you have not live your life with love and laughter. The relationships that you have are the most important things in life. Cherish who you have and what you have. Our treasures are made of these feelings that we are loved and we love. Bring out your best self and know that your positive energy heals and help others in finding themselves as well. Lighten up and snapped out from the small self.

Relationships are your mirrors to yourself, whatever you see within the other person is how you are inside yourself. This is an inner reflection of how you are inside yourself, because they are here for a reason and whatever you see is what you feel inside. The Universe is giving you things that reflects about yourself because we are one, holographic point of view.  When a person looks at life this way, they will be enlighten about their own selves on what they need to let go or learn, usually its judgements about their own selves. What goes around comes around, you attract this into your life to magnify your inner selves.

I was reflecting on human relationships and it dawn on me that we attract what our souls need during that particular time. Meaning when you are with someone, this person brings to you what you needed to learn. If it’s unconditional love or forgiveness, at first you thought this person will bring to you things that will make you happy and fulfilled, but truly this person will bring out to you things that you needed to accept or learn.

The depth of your intimacy will bring out your shadows and vulnerability of the ego and self. Everything that you see within the person is what is inside of you, a mirror of your inner self. When you look at relationship this way, you will find true loving kindness towards your self and others. You will reflect and stop, thinking  that whatever I see in you is what I needed to know about myself. This is quite a miracle when you reflect to feel that this is what is happening here and you are too busy in pointing this matter to the other person.

When I look back at my past I can honestly say that my partner had brought me healing and mirrored to me what I needed to face. During those times I didn’t see the gift he was offering because of course I was in pain. But now as I evolved spiritually I learned that he was actually a blessing to my existence because through him I’ve learned true forgiveness and loving kindness towards myself. So in this lifetime this person served as my soul contract and became my partner in life. Even though that particular relationship was abusive it served it’s purpose. I’m not saying that someone should experience abuse in relationships but what I’m pointing out here is looking at the bigger picture of why this person was in my life and what I needed to learn from him.

The grace in knowing this is your lifetime is that you  become light and you’ve transcend the true meaning of unconditional love. Truly we are one in spirit and knowing this in my heart, it releases the other person in entanglement within  my energy field, which forgiveness brings when truly realized. REAL ationships is truly transforming, deeper than you know, it brings out your shadows, unconditional and loving, it’s paradoxical in a way that it takes you to the other side of what you think it is, its ups and downs will bring to you clarity and strength, keeps you grounded and inspired.

When I’m with someone I ask myself what is my soul longing to know from this transient being, then it brings me back to focus that it’s all about love and not fear. That there is nothing to fear about but to embrace the shadows and let go of the ego but truly open my heart to this person be it a child or an elder, there is always a gift for the soul and being. The beauty of it all is when you can see through the naked eye. The things that are unseen are then the most important things in life. The things that touched your heart is what is important, the illusion of what your eyes sees are the imaginations of this world. When we tap inside our inner selves, it brings you back to your beautiful self and the people that surrounds you feel the presence of love and truth.

The big paradox is that whatever relationship you have within yourself is what relationship you will get. They are mirrors of you, a reflections of your self. When you bring your fragmented self into wholesomeness then  it will be clear to you that you attract the same self that you are. There is no separation or boundary only to the veils of illusionary eyes. What you see is what you get. The challenge is seeing beyond the form and allowing its existence, believing that there is a purpose and become inspired of what is in front of you. There is always a path and choice that will lead you to what you’re  looking for but sometimes we are too blind to see what is in front of us is what we need. Our inner self is the guide every time we are lost,  we have to look within and tap into our heart, the compass to true self. It will speak to you and your responsibility is to listen and engage into that communication  and be able to share openly to those who surrounds you.

This will bring you true happiness and knowing yourself is the master to your destiny. There is only love and that love has to take place within you. Be loving and kind to yourself and your relationships will produce these fruits. The tree of life is grounded in its roots which is the foundation of life. These roots has to be grounded in self love so as to find strength to withstand any storms. The lesson is about self love and kindness, nature will bring you back to who you are, a beautiful master piece.

What is it at work that makes you gossip about other people? It would be a lot better if we all have this ground rule on not to talk about other people if you are not going to say something nice. This will automatically shut a lot of backstabbing and gossips. When I go home after a days work, I reflect on things that have been said and things that I should have said in defense of the other party. I realized that I’m in this circle of co workers to help my self, and how is that? By choosing not be a participant of this malicious gossip. It takes a lot of discipline to do this. First I have to be aware that this is not good for me and toxic to my soul.

When I hear something negative right away I have to be aware that this is a red flag for me to say nothing and change the topic or even just say “I have no comment”. I can also tell the other person that may be we should change ourselves and start being nice to others by not talking about them when they are not here. I find that most complaints are about them. They are not happy about themselves and so they find something to talk about just because they are empty and unfulfilled. I believe when someone has a conflict it has to be resolve right away and not to wait for this to be bottled up inside of you and then it explodes.

When I have a misunderstanding with a co worker I usually approach and resolve the conflict. I like taking it to heart level and not ego or power trip on who’s right or wrong. This way I build trust and openness toward the person. In my experiences I find that there is a lot of mistakes along the way because of not being able to face the situation. When you hide anger or resentment it becomes an easy escape to gossip about this particular person. But when you open your heart and express your feelings the conflict usually resolves. For me one should be able to allow this open communication and see that everyone is entitle to this voice.

The most common problem that occurs is about insecurity of some one’s being, which I find in almost cases. For some reason people feel that what they do is who they are and becomes very defensive and sensitive when someone steps on what they do. There is a sense of territorial rights and one becomes protective about this false identity. I’m the total opposite, my intention at work is to bring harmony and teamwork. I believe when someone is aware of their being there is a sense of peace and does not attract this kind of situations. One should remember that when conflicts arise, that they are the magnet and it will help when they take the time to reflect. There is a space where they can go and learn the lesson that this situation is calling for.

Our work place would be a better place if everyone would take the responsibility to choose peace and understanding with one another. Why would you like to come to a place where there is chaos and feelings of not wanted? When you can turn it around and build a place of love.