Relationships are your mirrors to yourself, whatever you see within the other person is how you are inside yourself. This is an inner reflection of how you are inside yourself, because they are here for a reason and whatever you see is what you feel inside. The Universe is giving you things that reflects about yourself because we are one, holographic point of view.  When a person looks at life this way, they will be enlighten about their own selves on what they need to let go or learn, usually its judgements about their own selves. What goes around comes around, you attract this into your life to magnify your inner selves.

I was reflecting on human relationships and it dawn on me that we attract what our souls need during that particular time. Meaning when you are with someone, this person brings to you what you needed to learn. If it’s unconditional love or forgiveness, at first you thought this person will bring to you things that will make you happy and fulfilled, but truly this person will bring out to you things that you needed to accept or learn.

The depth of your intimacy will bring out your shadows and vulnerability of the ego and self. Everything that you see within the person is what is inside of you, a mirror of your inner self. When you look at relationship this way, you will find true loving kindness towards your self and others. You will reflect and stop, thinking  that whatever I see in you is what I needed to know about myself. This is quite a miracle when you reflect to feel that this is what is happening here and you are too busy in pointing this matter to the other person.

When I look back at my past I can honestly say that my partner had brought me healing and mirrored to me what I needed to face. During those times I didn’t see the gift he was offering because of course I was in pain. But now as I evolved spiritually I learned that he was actually a blessing to my existence because through him I’ve learned true forgiveness and loving kindness towards myself. So in this lifetime this person served as my soul contract and became my partner in life. Even though that particular relationship was abusive it served it’s purpose. I’m not saying that someone should experience abuse in relationships but what I’m pointing out here is looking at the bigger picture of why this person was in my life and what I needed to learn from him.

The grace in knowing this is your lifetime is that you  become light and you’ve transcend the true meaning of unconditional love. Truly we are one in spirit and knowing this in my heart, it releases the other person in entanglement within  my energy field, which forgiveness brings when truly realized. REAL ationships is truly transforming, deeper than you know, it brings out your shadows, unconditional and loving, it’s paradoxical in a way that it takes you to the other side of what you think it is, its ups and downs will bring to you clarity and strength, keeps you grounded and inspired.

When I’m with someone I ask myself what is my soul longing to know from this transient being, then it brings me back to focus that it’s all about love and not fear. That there is nothing to fear about but to embrace the shadows and let go of the ego but truly open my heart to this person be it a child or an elder, there is always a gift for the soul and being. The beauty of it all is when you can see through the naked eye. The things that are unseen are then the most important things in life. The things that touched your heart is what is important, the illusion of what your eyes sees are the imaginations of this world. When we tap inside our inner selves, it brings you back to your beautiful self and the people that surrounds you feel the presence of love and truth.

The big paradox is that whatever relationship you have within yourself is what relationship you will get. They are mirrors of you, a reflections of your self. When you bring your fragmented self into wholesomeness then  it will be clear to you that you attract the same self that you are. There is no separation or boundary only to the veils of illusionary eyes. What you see is what you get. The challenge is seeing beyond the form and allowing its existence, believing that there is a purpose and become inspired of what is in front of you. There is always a path and choice that will lead you to what you’re  looking for but sometimes we are too blind to see what is in front of us is what we need. Our inner self is the guide every time we are lost,  we have to look within and tap into our heart, the compass to true self. It will speak to you and your responsibility is to listen and engage into that communication  and be able to share openly to those who surrounds you.

This will bring you true happiness and knowing yourself is the master to your destiny. There is only love and that love has to take place within you. Be loving and kind to yourself and your relationships will produce these fruits. The tree of life is grounded in its roots which is the foundation of life. These roots has to be grounded in self love so as to find strength to withstand any storms. The lesson is about self love and kindness, nature will bring you back to who you are, a beautiful master piece.