This question reminds me of my daughter when we used to go for long drive, she will scream and say “are we there yet?” and it’s a sign of boredom and anticipation. Don’t know what brought me to this question but truly this reminds me of myself..asking did I reach my destination yet? Where is my destination? they say it’s not the destination but the journey that counts! I guess I can agree to that insight, for me it doesn’t really matter about the destination it’s the journey that makes this life worth living for and I live this life with passion and love.

Of course the destination is the vision and the visualizations that comes with it, the inspiration that we take to make our dreams come true. It is somewhat like a future map to where we want to be in 5 or 10 yrs per say, so we still need this and it’s quite important to have this but we don’t need to be blinded by this vision but truly enjoy what’s in our plate right here, right now.

Looking back I know I’ve come along ways…I now have developed the patience, tolerance, non judgemental attitude towards my self, bigger vision and perception, holistic approach, expansive view that’s how I call it..when you are in it and become an observer of all the things that are happening yet you are not attached to the result or expectations to the outcome of the vision or project. I become free from all of the illusions of this world. You can say that I’m in this world yet I’m not from this world. Whatever it is, all I’m trying to say is that I had evolved as a human being conscious enough to know that I’m a part of whatever drama I’m into and whatever is given in my plate is what I have to face. I don’t run away anymore, I face it with love, commitment to my self first then to others, determination to work things out for the truth and freedom of spirit. This is a good space where you feel loved and not threatened.

I believe the common denominator of not living your life in the present moment is FEAR! when you realized that you are running away from anything it is because of this fear, not knowing that this is actually will bring the biggest lesson in your transformation. You are running away from something that you can’t face yet this is an illusion to start with and the only way to solve this is to face it with courage and say this is ENOUGH! The responsibility is mine and I’m the only one who can save my self from this illusion.

I find that most people can’t find their strength is because of the mind conditioning that they’ve received when they were children, is one of the root cause of this problem. When the people that are suppose to love and take care of you turn around and abused you, how can you feel loved! It takes a lot of courage and self love to be able to surpass this painful journey but surely there is always a light at the end of this tunnel. Sometimes we just have to jump with a quantum leap of faith! Believe in your self and that the rest of the good things will follow. There is no guarantee to anything but for sure you can pat your self for trying and courage for turning another stone in your life path.

When you think you have learned the lesson that’s when for sure the Universe will give you another one that asks, you really think so? Until you get to the bottom of the pits and finally opened your eyes to your self, that after all there is only your self at the end of this journey and it’s you who has the CHOICES who you’re going to allow and walk in this journey of life. The choices right in front of your eyes just like the destination is right within your self only we were too blind to see that since the start it is us that draws this journey and we also hold the keys to this journey on who, what, where, and how we are going to create this BEAUTIFUL DREAM. Dehypnothised yourself from all of these illusions and create a life that is full of love, joy and peace in every moment of your waking moments and breaths! LIVE, LOVE and LAUGH!

Namaste,

Teza