The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas or thoughts, their sexuality on how they want to be in control, to prevent them from having an intimate union with another person.

It’s almost to the detrimental of having fear about their own bodies and feelings of guilt that they are not perfect and not good enough to be with someone. It creates an illusion that they are in control of their bodies but it actually becomes an escape for intimacy. They become dependent of the need for approval of their bodies and they want the illusion that they are in control of their temple and that this will make them become respected by others. It is an ego in a form of control of their bodies. The obsession of the body and control is the shadow of this archetype and it can be transcended once the person becomes aware of the energetic component of this archetype.

Looking through the temple of their bodies, they carry the separation from others on how they intimately see and feel the world. The Virgin archetype has an intense inner focus. She is spiritually orientated and more concerned with the inner world than the outer world. She is now making a come back as women everywhere are beginning to follow their own hearts and dreams to manifest a reality other than that of partnerships, motherhood and child rearing. Often they are unmarried, but this did not mean that they were necessarily asexual. In fact, some of the virgin goddesses expressed their sexuality openly, owning their sexuality proudly and without shame. It was not given away or bartered or owned by their partners, it was wholly and solely within their dominion.

The union of body and spirit is not experience due to hiding behind the shadow of this virgin archetype. One has to realized that they need to have balance and intimate union with their own self to know that this can be transcended and learn the spiritual lesson of this archetype to fully function and become intimate with another soul. You have to know the fragmented parts of your archetypes that you are afraid to face or learn. Everything is about evolution and power, the path to finding the positive in the negative shadow of your archetypes will help you in learning the soul’s purpose. Every soul is different and you have to personalize the lesson and ask yourselves series of questions to help you figure out what is the lesson behind this archetype. Aks things that you are afraid of facing, what are your fears? what are the things that you are called to do and not to do? What is the pattern of this archetype? What can I do to help myself transcend this archetype and learn the lesson? It is about discovering your archetypal energy and how you can transcend them into positive light to help yourself become wholesome and bring light to your shadows.

“I declare to the Universe that I’m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!”

This archetype is not only about sexuality but it’s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It’s usually when one doesn’t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of married women are actually carrying these Archetypal energy. When they are not happy in their partnerships but feel they have to stay because of their survival.

Self empowerment is a gift, knowing your prostitute archetype is a tool when you can transcend this energy. One realizes that the spirit is more important than all of these material stuff and dependency that we surround ourselves with. What’s important is the relationships that are loving and truthful, when we stop denying and pretending that we are happy with the other person or situations that we are involve with. We open oourselves to honest, peaceful and loving relationships with our own self and others.

What makes a person to sell his spirit short? The root of this is fear of the unknown, when you are afraid to be who you are, you attract this fear and creates a shadow that blinds you to your truth, which is your spirit or light. When one is in the survival mode and can not find the inner strength to live the truth. It is an illusion of your true self, denying the power that resides within you. You are afraid to become big and empowered. One finds inner strength and becomes a true peaceful warrior of the light when he realizes that his inner spirit is more important to materialism. It doesn’t only involve materials it can also becomes a dependency to relationships that are harmful to your soul’s evolution.

This archetype teaches you to find your voice, to know your true self which is your spirit. When you align the mind with your heart you create the authenticity of your soul. Becoming conscious of your choices, that every single choice that we make will affect everything in our present moment. Finding your voice or self expression that will lead to your highest potential and highest good. You become open to what is and create expansion in your existence. You live outside the box and connect to your soul’s purpose. You enlighten your mind in all aspects of your attachments with materials and others. You become a free spirit.You thrive in all of those that you touch, with endurance, integrity and honor code that you make between you and your God whoever is your God.

The truth is about discovering your self and knowing what you truly desires and living your soul’s purpose. The situation is here to serve you to see the bigger picture of your life. When you shift your perspective this way, you use the situation to help and empower you to become who you are suppose to be. Use it like a compass in finding your inner strength. Forgive those who have harmed you and surrender to the Divine calling of your life. You have so many graces to receive when you face your challenges and honor your integrity. When you meditate and clear your emotional fields one can find inner peace with the situation. It helps to be at peace and it’s useless to blame anyone for where you are at because this situation happens to help you find your truth and it doesn’t help you if you are stuck in blaming others. Take the responsibility for yourself because you are always a co creator of anything that comes to you.

Miracles take place when you surrender everything to God, love is the only true power that we have. Everything else is an illusion. When your heart is open, you open your life to all the possibilities that you want to experience. Trusting and having that leap of faith that everything that happens is for all the good of those who follow the will of God. We are just instruments in this lifetime, we are ask to see beyond illusions and become conscious of our creations. See the gifts that you have inside and follow your heart. The wisdom lies inside this heart that beats as one. One with the Universal flow of life and connects to the Universal Mind of God.

The ability to heal this prostitute archetype is know where and what is the pattern of your disempowerment. When you discover the truth and accept that you have been going through this energy of selling short your spirit, you will find some light in the areas that you need to acknowledge where you are stuck. Acceptance is an important factor in healing because you are not stuck in denial, then you can face the truth without shame or guilt. Being hard on yourself is not going to help you but truly, being kind and compassionate towards yourself is the key to freedom of your spirit. Forgiveness for others and forgiving yourself for whatever happend in the past and living in the present moment will transform your mind, body and heart consciousness.

It is time to shift this prostitute to what is our truth with the Universal flow of love and forgiveness between all of us. We all have harmed each other in some ways that we are unconscious. Let us unite our consciousness in one field of love and light. When we shift this separation, we feel connected to the Universal power and we are empowered sentient beings experiencing the Divine flow of love and peace. Together we can make a difference in this world and be a powerful soul family in our evolution to becoming a dynamic, universal, progressive, conscious sentient beings in our planet Earth.

” I declare to the Universe that I am empowered, conscious, compassionate, loving sentient being that is experiencing unconditional love and inner peace within myself and others. I now create my conscious choices with full alignment and congruency to my Universal highest potential.”

This is the archetype that wakes up our consciousness to self empowerment. Experiencing pain and sufferings through our cloudy senses, we lose our spirit. We become focus on our mundane relationships with others and see all the negative things that doesn’t work for us. We become the victims of circumstances and blame others for our failures or mistakes in order to feel superior or better than the rest of humanity. We get entangled with this unending web of cycles and our Karmic bond within our lineage gets passed on from generations to generations without knowing our participation in this Karmic bondage.

As a sexual victim, the trespassing of my father became my pain body and relieving this broken trust every time I’m in a relationship. There was a sense of hidden and unconscious revenge and anger towards men. I wasn’t aware that unconsciously, I didn’t know how to receive love. I keep attracting the same pattern of woundedness and I have to suffer the pain of not being able to feel loved. Until one day when I was in hypnosis workshop and we did a muscle testing that it was revealed to me that I have a problem receiving love. This awareness became my guide towards my healing. I realized that my heart is not open in receiving the most important of all human gifts which is unconditional love. They always say you can not give love if you don’t love yourself but first you have to know that you are doing it to yourself. What is a sign that you don’t know how to receive love? You create broken relationships with others and you don’t know why this cycle keeps repeating itself, like a broken record.

When you are in this victim consciousness, you feel separated or alienated, that you don’t belong and that others are there to harm you. There is a sense of putting the blame to others, you become aloof of others who try to be close to you. There is no sense of trust and you like to be alone. Blaming and projecting to others what their faults are is not going to help you in anyway, looking within and facing your pain will finally release you from the attachments with others. You will be the master of your soul and live your heart’s desires. Looking at the bigger picture, you will see that the victim is just an archetypal energy that humanity has to go through as a survival mechanism. When you befriend and transcend this energy you will be self empowered to be your best and live your soul’s purpose. We live in this collective consciousness and we are part of this humanity but we all have the choices to choose which path to thread. Sacred Contracts are created in the blueprint of your soul, they are here to manifest in your existence to help you transcend this lifetime into being and tapping into your highest potential.

We continue being a victim as long as we don’t recognize that we are the magnet of the situations. When we wake up so to speak, we become aware of the patterns and we need to rewire the way we think things through. But we can’t change the way we think with the same mind that created it so we need to transform or shift our consciousness, by clearing our blockages and being aware of our heart and emotional vibration. When we are in the victim consciousness we are in the negative or lower vibrations of our emotions. These are emotions like anger, anxiety, pain, frustrations, anything that harms and disconnects us to our truth and peaceful state of mind.

The paradox of this archetype is that we become the light and goddess of our own shadow or fear. The part of us that is victimized is actually the tool that we can turn it around and use it as a tool to help others become over comer like us. We learn to transcend our blockage and Sacred contract to finally learn the spiritual lesson that we are here to know. There is always a spiritual lesson behind a problem and that is the door of opportunity knocking to help us transcend whatever obstacles we encounter.

In my experiences, I ask the help of Ascended Master St. Germaine and the Violet flame to help transmute this negative energy to become self empowered and conscious light being. When we ask help from our Ascended Masters and spiritual guides we open our flow to this energetic fields of vibrations. Our higher self connects and we receive the guidance and wisdom that they give us. Opening our Akashic Records to help us guide our soul’s journey is a powerful tool of enlightenment. When I open and connect to the Akashic Records, my path becomes clear and free of negative vibrations and energy. Clearing my consciousness and directing me to the path of a peaceful and joyful life.

There is a contract that needs to reconcile with this victim consciousness and you have the power to do it. Have the courage to face your fear and do it anyway. Look at the other person as your mirror and become powerful to see the light and share it to other victims who are still in their shadows. Things happen to you in order to transcend your shadow and become the radiant light of this world. When we are aware of our shadows and embrace our ego we become one with the world and others. Our Earth is our school for our spiritual lessons and let’s walk this path towards our truth and love. There is only love and fear is but our shadow to hide beneath this radiant light that we are.

What blocked the victims from healing? The most interesting blockage that I found with victims that prevent them from healing is not being aware of their participation in the game that their own voices in the head continually tells them. They identify with the perpetrator’s tresspasses and not knowing that they are still stuck in this play, when they don’t allow healing until they see the truth. They become attached to the past and they don’t seem to let go of the memory and beliefs that they are still suffering. This prevent them from living in the moment because they again attract the same abusive attack in another form of drama in their reality.

The Universe has some way of giving us situations all over again until we finally get the lesson. The wisdom arises only when they become aware that the memory is only in their head and pain body. The voices that keep telling them that they are not good enough are not to be indentified with, but be dismissed with conscious awareness. This keeps them from being a victim and get stuck on  blaming the other person. I guess this is an easy way out not to face their fear. A way out not to change or transform their lives.

From a victim’s point of view, they see the world as an enemy because of the conditioning or abuse that they experienced. To be empowered you have to see beyond the pain of the past and see the bigger picture. Beyond form or drama that occurred in your life is the underlying truth that is waiting to be discover. Which is going to be your freedom from being a vicitm of life’s circumstances. Before we incarnate here or materialize on earth, we came from nothing which is the unseen spirit world. There we made our sacred contracts as to what our souls want to learn here. In someone’s drama, the perpetrator or the villain is actually a blessing in disguise or your sacred contract to become who you are and what lessons you want to experience in this lifetime. Once you can see beyond the pain, you will find the freedom in knowing that everything was just perfect, coming from the bigger picture you suddenly realized that without the enemy there will be no victory. The empowered only become who he is when his strength and faith is put to test. This is all but a play that we are the actors of this so called life. We are also the creators of this drama.

When you disown yourself you are fragmented and you see yourself separate from others. Your filter of perception is distorted and feels that everyone is here to attack you. You are projecting your own deepest fears and negative thoughts. To be aware is to know what you are thinking in the present moment. Ask yourself “where are my thoughts right now?” Then you will be in touch to the energy that you are projecting as you know that what you think is what you project externally. You will be able to connect why things happen the way they are. To be aware that everything that’s in your field is what you magnetized. The main attractor is you and your thoughts so the secret in healing the “victims mentality” is being aware of the voices in your head and say to yourself this too shall pass and everything will be fine. I am loved!