Co-dependency is an excuse to be your authentic self. There are lots of reasons or excuses why someone would stay in a relationship such as this because they like to be in their comfort zone. Leaving a place where they don’t need to exert an effort to be their highest potential is an easy way out of facing life than becoming who they are. They have fear of failure and so they stay in a cozy place where they don’t need to face life’s challenges by themselves alone. They blame or point the finger to the other person rather than taking full responsibility for their own independence and responsibility.

They have issues such as abandonement and when they stay in a relationship like this co-dependency they get trapped in the illusion that they are being abandoned or they are abandoning the person they are with when needed to move on. There is an attachment to the person that they can’t let go. What does the person needs to learn when face in such dilemna? First, you have to acknowledge that you have a problem. Facing the problem is the first step in helping yourself out of the trap. When you don’t acknowledge then you can’t resolve anything. The mind that created the problem would not be able to solve the problem, you need to shift or transform in order to solve the problem. How do you shift? By letting go and going with the flow of the situation. Remember that anything that you magnetize in your situation is because of you not anyone else. So the problem is there because you become the magnet of the situation. Don’t be hard on yourself. Love unconditionally and start where you are.

“I love myself and take full responsibility for all my thoughts, words and actions. Be it done!”

What are the treasures hidden in the darkness? these are the sufferings, difficulties and trials that we go through in our lives. While we are going through the motions we don’t know that these will turn out to be gifts until God reveals to us the bigger purpose of these experiences. Things happen for a reason, and I believe God  is always there with us in the midst of our tribulations. When I had abortion surely God was with me weeping and sobbing in the deepest cries of my heart. He had heard my wailing and seen my broken heart. Through this pain I became very aware and compassionate about others pain. I can’t turn my back on someone who’s in pain and always be there to reach out to others. Can you imagine this world of darkness if someone can not see the light? Where would that person be? Will he take his own life out of desperation? Would he be wallowing in pity and self- torture? These questions are some things that a desperate person would be contemplating. I had lots of dark nights of my soul and was longing for God’s answers but didn’t feel His presence. He was too far to reach me and my soul is quenching in thirst for His love. “Where are you in the midst of this despair?” I ask God. You don’t hear God’s words and only when you surrender to Him then, I slowly hear Him again. The treasures are stored in the most precious gift of God inside my little heart. When I’m going through some darkness I just have to remind myself that treasures are hidden in the darkness.”And I will give you treasures hidden in the darkness-secret riches. I will do this so you may know that I am the Lord, the God of Israel, the one who calls you by name. ” Isaiah 45:3

The Mystic Archetype dwells with the Divine within and lives symbolically in the material world we call Earth.The challenge is to balance and how to walk the mystical path with practical feet and living in between worlds of materialism and spirituality. Grounding is an important factor to transcend this archetypal blueprint template. There is a borderline between insanity or madness because when you are in your “ecstasy” you are not in touch with your present reality. You are one in communal with God and you seem to lose touch with your present moment.

The personal challenge for me is when my family members don’t understand what a mystic is and assume that they know everything about you. They want their peace of mind so they want you to take a “magic pill” that will clear them of their own fear . Their fears is actually about them, it is the fear of letting go with control and attachments. They want everything to be in control and balance so when they see you in your “ecstasy” they are scared that they will lose you and their lives will be in chaos. But actually it’s their own world that they can’t manage because they can’t accept the fact that their own mother is a mystic and should not be justified by any medical community that there is something wrong with her.

This is the illusion that humanity needs to accept that a mystic is simply longing to be left alone with the Divine time in her private reclusion or retreat. Let her be, as long as she doesn’t harm herself. They feel more rejected by the world when their own family members, co workers, friends give them a label that they are insane. Who really knows what sanity is? When is the world going to wake up? We continually live in sham and drudgery, the mystics know they are not insane but the society doesn’t give them credibility for these beautiful gifts of unconditional love. They seem to recognize the insanity of the mystics because they are afraid of their own darkness and shadows. It is living outside your box in order to make room for the mystics.

To see and feel the pain of the mentallly challenged patients in the Mental Institution because there is no one there to care and truly listen to their broken hearts is quite an awakening experience. We need to wake up as one collective consciousness to be aware that our world is not cut out for everyone. We have all different gifts and voices to be heard in the midst of our dark nights. We have the birthright to voice our true spirit and longings of our souls, where no one dares to thread. I am the voice of a mystic that truly feels the pain and sufferings of being ridiculed, judged and labeled. Enough is enough. We need to voice and see the beautiful gifts of the mystics outside the monasteries. We are here, to serve our humanity elevate their consciousness and become one with the Divine Source of everything. We are all one, children of God whatever God means for you.

The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas or thoughts, their sexuality on how they want to be in control, to prevent them from having an intimate union with another person.

It’s almost to the detrimental of having fear about their own bodies and feelings of guilt that they are not perfect and not good enough to be with someone. It creates an illusion that they are in control of their bodies but it actually becomes an escape for intimacy. They become dependent of the need for approval of their bodies and they want the illusion that they are in control of their temple and that this will make them become respected by others. It is an ego in a form of control of their bodies. The obsession of the body and control is the shadow of this archetype and it can be transcended once the person becomes aware of the energetic component of this archetype.

Looking through the temple of their bodies, they carry the separation from others on how they intimately see and feel the world. The Virgin archetype has an intense inner focus. She is spiritually orientated and more concerned with the inner world than the outer world. She is now making a come back as women everywhere are beginning to follow their own hearts and dreams to manifest a reality other than that of partnerships, motherhood and child rearing. Often they are unmarried, but this did not mean that they were necessarily asexual. In fact, some of the virgin goddesses expressed their sexuality openly, owning their sexuality proudly and without shame. It was not given away or bartered or owned by their partners, it was wholly and solely within their dominion.

The union of body and spirit is not experience due to hiding behind the shadow of this virgin archetype. One has to realized that they need to have balance and intimate union with their own self to know that this can be transcended and learn the spiritual lesson of this archetype to fully function and become intimate with another soul. You have to know the fragmented parts of your archetypes that you are afraid to face or learn. Everything is about evolution and power, the path to finding the positive in the negative shadow of your archetypes will help you in learning the soul’s purpose. Every soul is different and you have to personalize the lesson and ask yourselves series of questions to help you figure out what is the lesson behind this archetype. Aks things that you are afraid of facing, what are your fears? what are the things that you are called to do and not to do? What is the pattern of this archetype? What can I do to help myself transcend this archetype and learn the lesson? It is about discovering your archetypal energy and how you can transcend them into positive light to help yourself become wholesome and bring light to your shadows.

“I declare to the Universe that I’m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!”

This archetype is not only about sexuality but it’s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It’s usually when one doesn’t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of married women are actually carrying these Archetypal energy. When they are not happy in their partnerships but feel they have to stay because of their survival.

Self empowerment is a gift, knowing your prostitute archetype is a tool when you can transcend this energy. One realizes that the spirit is more important than all of these material stuff and dependency that we surround ourselves with. What’s important is the relationships that are loving and truthful, when we stop denying and pretending that we are happy with the other person or situations that we are involve with. We open oourselves to honest, peaceful and loving relationships with our own self and others.

What makes a person to sell his spirit short? The root of this is fear of the unknown, when you are afraid to be who you are, you attract this fear and creates a shadow that blinds you to your truth, which is your spirit or light. When one is in the survival mode and can not find the inner strength to live the truth. It is an illusion of your true self, denying the power that resides within you. You are afraid to become big and empowered. One finds inner strength and becomes a true peaceful warrior of the light when he realizes that his inner spirit is more important to materialism. It doesn’t only involve materials it can also becomes a dependency to relationships that are harmful to your soul’s evolution.

This archetype teaches you to find your voice, to know your true self which is your spirit. When you align the mind with your heart you create the authenticity of your soul. Becoming conscious of your choices, that every single choice that we make will affect everything in our present moment. Finding your voice or self expression that will lead to your highest potential and highest good. You become open to what is and create expansion in your existence. You live outside the box and connect to your soul’s purpose. You enlighten your mind in all aspects of your attachments with materials and others. You become a free spirit.You thrive in all of those that you touch, with endurance, integrity and honor code that you make between you and your God whoever is your God.

The truth is about discovering your self and knowing what you truly desires and living your soul’s purpose. The situation is here to serve you to see the bigger picture of your life. When you shift your perspective this way, you use the situation to help and empower you to become who you are suppose to be. Use it like a compass in finding your inner strength. Forgive those who have harmed you and surrender to the Divine calling of your life. You have so many graces to receive when you face your challenges and honor your integrity. When you meditate and clear your emotional fields one can find inner peace with the situation. It helps to be at peace and it’s useless to blame anyone for where you are at because this situation happens to help you find your truth and it doesn’t help you if you are stuck in blaming others. Take the responsibility for yourself because you are always a co creator of anything that comes to you.

Miracles take place when you surrender everything to God, love is the only true power that we have. Everything else is an illusion. When your heart is open, you open your life to all the possibilities that you want to experience. Trusting and having that leap of faith that everything that happens is for all the good of those who follow the will of God. We are just instruments in this lifetime, we are ask to see beyond illusions and become conscious of our creations. See the gifts that you have inside and follow your heart. The wisdom lies inside this heart that beats as one. One with the Universal flow of life and connects to the Universal Mind of God.

The ability to heal this prostitute archetype is know where and what is the pattern of your disempowerment. When you discover the truth and accept that you have been going through this energy of selling short your spirit, you will find some light in the areas that you need to acknowledge where you are stuck. Acceptance is an important factor in healing because you are not stuck in denial, then you can face the truth without shame or guilt. Being hard on yourself is not going to help you but truly, being kind and compassionate towards yourself is the key to freedom of your spirit. Forgiveness for others and forgiving yourself for whatever happend in the past and living in the present moment will transform your mind, body and heart consciousness.

It is time to shift this prostitute to what is our truth with the Universal flow of love and forgiveness between all of us. We all have harmed each other in some ways that we are unconscious. Let us unite our consciousness in one field of love and light. When we shift this separation, we feel connected to the Universal power and we are empowered sentient beings experiencing the Divine flow of love and peace. Together we can make a difference in this world and be a powerful soul family in our evolution to becoming a dynamic, universal, progressive, conscious sentient beings in our planet Earth.