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		<title>Unveiling the pain in your heart</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 17:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>Unmasking these layers of pain in your heart is a process of being true to yourself. When you face your fear of unveiling the truth, unconditional love for yourself comes through. There is no hidden truth only what is felt within your heart. Open the doorway of your heart and listen to what it says. Receive don&#8217;t resist, let the flow of light penetrate its shadows of fear. This fear of intimacy is the mask covering the walls around your heart. When it reveals the pain that underlies the core patterns of suffering, it is easier to breathe&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/04/12/unveiling-the-pain-in-your-heart/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Unmasking these layers of pain in your heart is a process of being true to yourself. When you face your fear of unveiling the truth, unconditional love for yourself comes through. There is no hidden truth only what is felt within your heart. Open the doorway of your heart and listen to what it says. Receive don&#8217;t resist, let the flow of light penetrate its shadows of fear. This fear of intimacy is the mask covering the walls around your heart. When it reveals the pain that underlies the core patterns of suffering, it is easier to breathe and allow the deepest healing of your heart. The pain that lingers and calls for attention suddenly comes into a still and holds the space of love, truth and peace. The pain dissipates and understands what love truly means, it doesn&#8217;t hurt anymore, when there is no more pain, there is only love.</p>
<p>Life is like a mystery, when you discover the truth life becomes a lighter path to thread on. Your heart become light and it helps others to see their own brightness when you radiate this bright light that comes from the Divine&#8217;s heart of wisdom. The secret is love beyond form, dramas and suffering. We are here to experience love and happiness with all that is. Let us begin this path by unveiling what lies beyond our pain, let go of this suffering and surrender to your magnificent self. The soul magnifies everything and allows this expansion to what is. Our hearts are like these vessels of love that longs to pour into our humanity to create the oneness of God&#8217;s love and wisdom for us. There is no more pain but peace that is beyond the level of understanding that our mind can hold. This inner peace is the foundation for letting go of our attachment to pain and suffering. When we connect to our stillness we create a different pattern of life that holds a higher vibration of love and light.</p>
<p>Thus, life becomes a reflection of God&#8217;s love for us. We are the bearer of light and love. Unleash yourself from this pain that our humanity had gone through the ages. The enlightenment is here and now. Your heart and mind is align to what is and all is well. Forgive others and yourself to pave the way to healing. This lightens the load that you carry consciously or unconsciously in your essence. The path of the heart is through this doorway that opens once true forgiveness is attain. Love is rediscovering the full and highest potential of our existence, giving inspiration and enthusiasm to all sentient beings.</p>
<p>The shadows becomes light, there is understanding of the heart and mind,  how they both align and becomes congruent to each other. This connection is needed to be in full alignment with the soul&#8217;s purpose. The pain body is gone and just lives on love, it now attracts love and not fear because there is no more space for pain. The heart lives its desires and highest potential is clear and determine to be the force of life. Love is power,  its highest vibration of God&#8217;s love for us. Let us connect to this power and our lives will be in a happy and peaceful state of condition. Letting go of illusions and fear is part of the process. Surrendering to the flow of life where it leads us. Most of the time we get used to the comfort zone and we find it hard to let go because of our attachments to things, places and people that we surround ourselves with. These attachments keep us inside the box and witholds our expansion. Our freedom lies in discovering our truth, which is our spirit. </p>
<p>The pain body that attracts another sentient being who carries the same energetic codes will give you the lessons in life that you are searching for. Once attained your level of understanding will expand and now shift into a higher level of consciousness which is about love and light. The light quotient that you carry will increase and will see clearly why things has to happen that way. What is clearing will hold a vibration that is higher in frequency and that helps you elevate your consciousness. Allowing the flow of grace and ease to your energetic imprints will transform your inner being. The heart has doorways to your expansive self that sees no boundaries to what you want to experience. This doorway has the key to your soul, you hold the key to your happiness and inner peace. The pain is the key in disguise, take the pain and see beyond it, transform by understanding the underlying cause of this pain. Usually when you ask yourself, the answers will be revealed to you. Face the fear and heal with your unconditional love for yourself. Ask yourself, if I truly love myself would I do this? would I be in the pattern of pain and suffering if I love myself? What do I do to let go of this pattern and am I ready to clear this in my life. did i learn the lesson? what is the lesson that life is showing me? These are some questions that can help you clear what is not clear for you. </p>
<p>Tapping into your Akashic Records helps you clear your blockages and able to clear your energetic fields. Consciously working to empower you and to attain your highest potential. When you unveil the pain in your heart, you receive the codes for healing and empowering your life. You tap into the Source and become at peace with yourself and others. The unveiling is the thin veil that hinders our perception to what is. Once this is lifted, we now see the beauty that is within and to all sentient beings. There is no separation but oneness, feeling at one in nature and all that is. Our pain is our compass towards total freedom of the spirit. Let us see this pain with a different outlook and use this as our tool to discover our true purpose and our hearts desires will show us our way. </p>
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		<title>Clearing for co- dependence</title>
		<link>http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/03/03/clearing-for-co-dependence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2012 21:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Alignment]]></category>
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<p>Co-dependency is an excuse to be your authentic self. There are lots of reasons or excuses why someone would stay in a relationship such as this because they like to be in their comfort zone. Leaving a place where they don&#8217;t need to exert an effort to be their highest potential is an easy way out of facing life than becoming who they are. They have fear of failure and so they stay in a cozy place where they don&#8217;t need to face life&#8217;s challenges by themselves alone. They blame or point the finger to the other person&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/03/03/clearing-for-co-dependence/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Co-dependency is an excuse to be your authentic self. There are lots of reasons or excuses why someone would stay in a relationship such as this because they like to be in their comfort zone. Leaving a place where they don&#8217;t need to exert an effort to be their highest potential is an easy way out of facing life than becoming who they are. They have fear of failure and so they stay in a cozy place where they don&#8217;t need to face life&#8217;s challenges by themselves alone. They blame or point the finger to the other person rather than taking full responsibility for their own independence and responsibility. </p>
<p>They have issues such as abandonement and when they stay in a relationship like this co-dependency they get trapped in the illusion that they are being abandoned or they are abandoning the person they are with when needed to move on. There is an attachment to the person that they can&#8217;t let go. What does the person needs to learn when face in such dilemna? First, you have to acknowledge that you have a problem. Facing the problem is the first step in helping yourself out of the trap. When you don&#8217;t acknowledge then you can&#8217;t resolve anything. The mind that created the problem would not be able to solve the problem, you need to shift or transform in order to solve the problem. How do you shift? By letting go and going with the flow of the situation. Remember that anything that you magnetize in your situation is because of you not anyone else. So the problem is there because you become the magnet of the situation. Don&#8217;t be hard on yourself. Love unconditionally and start where you are. </p>
<p>&#8220;I love myself and take full responsibility for all my thoughts, words and actions. Be it done!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Treasures in the darkness</title>
		<link>http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/11/treasures-in-the-darkness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 23:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Being Yourself]]></category>
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<p>What are the treasures hidden in the darkness? these are the sufferings, difficulties and trials that we go through in our lives. While we are going through the motions we don&#8217;t know that these will turn out to be gifts until God reveals to us the bigger purpose of these experiences. Things happen for a reason, and I believe God  is always there with us in the midst of our tribulations. When I had abortion surely God was with me weeping and sobbing in the deepest cries of my heart. He had heard my wailing and seen my broken heart. Through&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/11/treasures-in-the-darkness/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>What are the treasures hidden in the darkness? these are the sufferings, difficulties and trials that we go through in our lives. While we are going through the motions we don&#8217;t know that these will turn out to be gifts until God reveals to us the bigger purpose of these experiences. Things happen for a reason, and I believe God  is always there with us in the midst of our tribulations. When I had abortion surely God was with me weeping and sobbing in the deepest cries of my heart. He had heard my wailing and seen my broken heart. Through this pain I became very aware and compassionate about others pain. I can&#8217;t turn my back on someone who&#8217;s in pain and always be there to reach out to others. Can you imagine this world of darkness if someone can not see the light? Where would that person be? Will he take his own life out of desperation? Would he be wallowing in pity and self- torture? These questions are some things that a desperate person would be contemplating. I had lots of dark nights of my soul and was longing for God&#8217;s answers but didn&#8217;t feel His presence. He was too far to reach me and my soul is quenching in thirst for His love. &#8220;Where are you in the midst of this despair?&#8221; I ask God. You don&#8217;t hear God&#8217;s words and only when you surrender to Him then, I slowly hear Him again. The treasures are stored in the most precious gift of God inside my little heart. When I&#8217;m going through some darkness I just have to remind myself that treasures are hidden in the darkness.&#8221;And I will give you treasures hidden in the darkness-secret riches. I will do this so you may know that I am the Lord, the God of Israel, the one who calls you by name. &#8221; Isaiah 45:3</p>
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		<title>Dearest Papa,</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 22:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>This letter was written on May 10, 2004 to my father for our healing and I also talked about this is in my You tube site which is under &#8220;Tezamysticangel&#8221; which has now attracted 81,400 viewers since I&#8217;ve opened it on 2008.</p>
<p>Happy 85&#8242;th birthday! I&#8217;m writing this letter because I want to put a closure to my healing wounds. In doing so I will be able to let go of all the feelings that I wasn&#8217;t able to tell you because of so many reasons. I will help the little girl in me to have a voice&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/11/dearest-papa/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>This letter was written on May 10, 2004 to my father for our healing and I also talked about this is in my You tube site which is under &#8220;Tezamysticangel&#8221; which has now attracted 81,400 viewers since I&#8217;ve opened it on 2008.</p>
<p>Happy 85&#8242;th birthday! I&#8217;m writing this letter because I want to put a closure to my healing wounds. In doing so I will be able to let go of all the feelings that I wasn&#8217;t able to tell you because of so many reasons. I will help the little girl in me to have a voice and finally be heard. To continue to grow in trust and safety in God&#8217;s hands.</p>
<p>Papa, I wanted you to know that I&#8217;ve forgiven you for all the things that you&#8217;ve done to me in the past. Bur deep inside of me there are so many unspoken pains and unhealed memories of the past that needed to be in the light. In order to dispel the power of darkness. What I mean to say is that I needed to tell you so that it will not come back to haunt me anymore. Like a ghost restless and haunting. I still remembered growing up, you used to call me in your room and seduced me with fruits to go inside and you would tell me that it&#8217;s our secret. Then, you would ask me to remove my uniform shirt because it was too hot and I would do that and ate my fruits and watched tv. I can vividly remember how you watched and lusted for me. I didn&#8217;t knkow better because you were my father. I thought love is seduction and lust. I would feel important, special and wanted because this is the way you shared love to me. Why did you do this? Are you sick?</p>
<p>For whatever reasons the damage was done and I was broken. I didn&#8217;t know that this is the way a father should treat his daughter. The most hurful part of this is when you sucked my breast after the abortion. Do you know how deep is the wound that you have stubbed me in my heart? It felt like a sword had cut right through my heart. I lost my true identiy as a woman. I don&#8217;t know how to trust, love and respect my body. I don&#8217;t know the concept of boundary because of your trespasses. I don&#8217;t know my self worth, it felt like a garbage dirty and not wanted. These are all the ugly feelings that resulted from what you had sowed in my little girl&#8217;s heart. I&#8217;m not going through counseling and it was revealed to me that I needed to write a letter to heal my deepest wounds.</p>
<p>Papa, I&#8217;ve truly forgiven you. This letter will surely hurt but the intention is to share with you my deepest sorrows, in order for me to heal completely. This is from the past and I know God wants me to bury this behind. Out of this experience I became closer to God, telling Him all my heartaches. I would like to end this with a prayer for both of us.</p>
<p>Dearest God,</p>
<p>We thank you for bringing us together in spirit, being able to voice out my feelings and opening my wounds to my father. To bring a closure to the past. We ask you for forgiveness, compassion and mercy. Thank you for renewing our minds, body and souls. Transform us into your image and use us as instruments of your healing power. That with our story we could touch other souls who are going through the same darkness. Thank you for bringing your light into our hearts. The light that heals and comforts our broken hearts. Thank you for being a Father to all of us, and I ask you to bless my father and fill his heart with complete joy, love and peace. We ask you this through Christ our Lord Amen.</p>
<p>Praying for healing and true forgiveness,<br />
Teza</p>
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		<title>Sanctity of Life</title>
		<link>http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/09/sanctity-of-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 18:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>From death to life: a teeanage abortion survivor tells her story</p>
<p>This is my written testimony on May 21, 2001 that I wrote in The B.C. Catholic newspaper and I&#8217;m here and inspired to share this to all to promote the sanctity of life. </p>
<p>This is what the Lord says; &#8220;A voice is heard in Ramah, mourning and great weeping. Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because her children are no more.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded, &#8221; declares the Lord.&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/09/sanctity-of-life/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>From death to life: a teeanage abortion survivor tells her story</p>
<p>This is my written testimony on May 21, 2001 that I wrote in The B.C. Catholic newspaper and I&#8217;m here and inspired to share this to all to promote the sanctity of life. </p>
<p>This is what the Lord says; &#8220;A voice is heard in Ramah, mourning and great weeping. Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because her children are no more.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, for your work will be rewarded, &#8221; declares the Lord. &#8220;They will return from the land of the enemy. So there is hope for your future,&#8221; declares the Lord. &#8220;Your children will return to their own land.&#8221;(Jer. 31:15-17)</p>
<p>This is the start of the story of Jasmine, my sweet angel. I knew all along God had a bigger plan for my life, because I believe He will never allow these trials if not for a purpose. In writing this story I ask God to guide me in this calling, it&#8217;s a calling because I would not be telling you my life story if not for His glory. God seems to have designed my heart this way. Deeply, I don&#8217;t have shame, guilt, fear or desire to be secretive about this situation because in my heart I believe the truth will set you free! Nothing is hidden in His eyes, and I will gladly serve others by my experience if it will bring forth good fruits. </p>
<p>I was living in the Phillippines when it happend; I was just 14 when my parents decided that we would be moving to California. My parents left ahead of me, and I was left under the supervision of my brother. Unfortunately, my brother was quite over protective and insecure. He was physically and verbally abusive towards me. Due to confusion and abandonement, I became a rebel. I had a boyfriend and decided to take revenge on my brother. On my brother&#8217;s birthday I dared my boyfriend to make love to me. What a dumb idea but at that time I needed love and validation. I became pregnant.</p>
<p>My parents returned from California. They were worried about the family&#8217;s reputation, and my father and brother told me that I had to choose to either marry my boyfriend or abort the baby. I was very depressed, because I wanted to keep the baby but did not want to get married. The next thing I knew my brother and sister took me to a stranger&#8217;s house. I can vividly picture the house of that abortionist. There were lots of statues of saints, and in the bedroom where she did the abortions there were fetuses inside the jars, in alignment. </p>
<p>I was very shocked and hurt to see this. I never uttered a word. It was like going to a death sentence. She asked me to lie down and inserted a catheter. I was numb and mentally blank. I felt abused and was dying inside. She told my family that the baby would not be expelled until the next day, so we left. We went to my other brother&#8217;s house, because my parents didn&#8217;t want me back home. Around 3 o&#8217;clock in the morning I was bleeding and in extreme pain. I went to void and felt something. I looked and in the toilet and there was a little mass of blood. Shocked, I screamed at my sister and she flushed the toilet. I was hemorrhaging. My brother wrapped me in a blanket and ran for a taxi, carrying me all the way. </p>
<p>They returned me to that abortionist, and she performed a D and C without anaesthesia. I was in agony but my agony was about losing my baby not about the physical pain. She said I was the only person (on whom she had performed such a procedure) who didn&#8217;t scream in pain. She didn&#8217;t know that I was dying inside. After a couple of weeks I returned to my parents. But I felt lonely, because nobody talked to me. It was as if everybody was avoiding me. I started isolating myself to the point of not leaving my room for a month. I went into a deep depression. I remember my sister said to me &#8220;I missed your laughter, what happend to you?&#8221; The vibrant teenager that they knew was gone. In my loneliness I continually blamed God and angry at the world. I wanted to die.</p>
<p>Finally, my family couldn&#8217;t handle me anymore, I went to hospital and stayed for a month, being treated with strong anti- depressant medications. I started seeing a Psychiatrist and was put into therapy. I remember I wrote a letter addressed to my family and titled it &#8220;Open book,&#8221; about my feelings. It was a beautiful book and I wish I had kept it for you to know how a teenager feels when she had been stripped away of her rights. A right to give life! </p>
<p>The story didn&#8217;t end there my depression stayed with me till 18 yrs of age. I came to Canada and stayed at my brother&#8217;s place for a vacation. I found out that they were unable to have children. They were married for 10 yrs, I really felt bad about it. I said a novena to Our Lady of Perpetual Help for them. </p>
<p>I got pregnant again. This time I did something right. I hid it from my family for six months so they could not kill my child. I dedicated my baby to my brother. Every night, I talked to my child and told him that I&#8217;m doing this because of love. I knew I couldn&#8217;t provide for him, and he wasn&#8217;t going to have a father if I kept him because again I didn&#8217;t want to commit. Matt Anthony was born and he was a gift from God. I told God that this is my offering for the abortion that I had when I was 15. Even though it wasn&#8217;t my plan to commit that hideous sin, I still felt responsible, because it was my body that was used. The guilt that I was carrying was lifted off my shoulders. When Matt was two months old, I gave him to my brother. </p>
<p>I had an awesome revelation during a retreat I recently went on. I know God wants me to do something about my experience. I was reading Jeremiah in my Bible and thought that Rachel sounded familiar. I remembered seeing Project Rachel on the bulletin board of Our Lady of Mercy church. It is an organization that helps women with post-abortion issues. I talked to my parish priest and ask him &#8220;where do aborted babies go father?&#8221;He replied, &#8220;in the palm of God&#8217;s hands!&#8221; My heart leaped for joy knowing Jasmine, my sweet angel, is with God waiting and praying for me. </p>
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		<title>My sweet angel Jasmine,</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 05:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>This letter was written when I was asked to write something for my aborted child in a book that was published for aborted babies in the Christian community. Out of the blue I got a letter from someone that they want a letter for my aborted baby and this transpired.</p>
<p>Thirty three yrs  ago, I lost the chance of having you because of unfortunate choices that my family made in my young life of fifteen. Although, it wasn&#8217;t my choice to lose you, my body was the vehicle of your death and felt a great sense of grief,&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/09/my-sweet-angel-jasmine/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>This letter was written when I was asked to write something for my aborted child in a book that was published for aborted babies in the Christian community. Out of the blue I got a letter from someone that they want a letter for my aborted baby and this transpired.</p>
<p>Thirty three yrs  ago, I lost the chance of having you because of unfortunate choices that my family made in my young life of fifteen. Although, it wasn&#8217;t my choice to lose you, my body was the vehicle of your death and felt a great sense of grief, guilt and responsibility for this hideous murder. Looking back I really don&#8217;t know how I stayed sane through the course of my lifetime. As you know your brothers and sister had kept me going through all the years. They gave me the chance to be a good mother, which I never had with you. Losing you made me a better person and realized that I have the voice to reach out to those women who are experiencing the same agony. To give hope where there is doubt and to bring light where there is darkness. You taught me the greatest thing of all which is love.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been writing about us and never really thought of writing to you until this calling was made. This is the first time that I truly communicated with you. I don&#8217;t know how or what I&#8217;m going to tell you but I&#8217;m doing it anyway. You are my sweet angel and always watching over me and your siblings. In your world there is so much love that I can hardly wait to be there. All my life I wanted to be with you but I guess I still have some work to do here. I believe things happen for a reason and in God&#8217;s hands I surrender my life.</p>
<p>Jasmine, I&#8217;m truly sorry for not haviing you and for my family&#8217;s action of abortion. I can&#8217;t bring back the past and all I have now is the present moment. I want you to know that even though I lost you, that you are always in my heart and soul. Everytime I see and smell flowers I&#8217;m reminded of you and your beauty in my life. Can you imagine that out of a dreadful experience I will bear fruits of healing, love, hope, faith, joy, forgiveness, surrender, serenity and peace? These are the gifts that you brought into my heart and I thank you for forgiving and allowing me to be your mother in spirit.</p>
<p>Love is timeless and boundless. My love for you is as real as here and now. It leaps through space and time. It is eternal and bliss. Thank you for your presence and love that I feel in my heart. There is nothing in this world that would make my life completely perfect until that time when you take my hand and meet me there in the gateway of heaven.</p>
<p>I love you with my heart and soul.</p>
<p>Mommy Teza</p>
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		<title>Mystic Archetype</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:38:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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The Mystic Archetype dwells with the Divine within and lives symbolically in the material world we call Earth.The challenge is to balance and how to walk the mystical path with practical feet and living in between worlds of materialism and spirituality. Grounding is an important factor to transcend this archetypal blueprint template. There is a borderline between insanity or madness because when you are in your &#8220;ecstasy&#8221; you are not in touch with your present reality. You are one in communal with God and you seem to lose touch with your present moment. </p>
<p>The personal challenge for&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/02/08/mystic-archetype/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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The Mystic Archetype dwells with the Divine within and lives symbolically in the material world we call Earth.The challenge is to balance and how to walk the mystical path with practical feet and living in between worlds of materialism and spirituality. Grounding is an important factor to transcend this archetypal blueprint template. There is a borderline between insanity or madness because when you are in your &#8220;ecstasy&#8221; you are not in touch with your present reality. You are one in communal with God and you seem to lose touch with your present moment. </p>
<p>The personal challenge for me is when my family members don&#8217;t understand what a mystic is and assume that they know everything about you. They want their peace of mind so they want you to take a &#8220;magic pill&#8221; that will clear them of their own fear . Their fears is actually about them, it is the fear of letting go with control and attachments. They want everything to be in control and balance so when they see you in your &#8220;ecstasy&#8221; they are scared that they will lose you and their lives will be in chaos.   But actually it&#8217;s their own world that they can&#8217;t manage because they can&#8217;t accept the fact that their own mother is a mystic and should not be justified by any medical  community that there is something wrong with her.</p>
<p>This is the illusion that humanity needs to accept that a mystic is simply longing to be left alone with the Divine time in her private reclusion or retreat. Let her be, as long as she doesn&#8217;t harm herself. They feel more rejected by the world when their own family members, co workers, friends give them a label that they are insane. Who really knows what sanity is? When is the world going to wake up? We continually live in sham and drudgery, the mystics know they are not insane but the society doesn&#8217;t give them credibility for these beautiful gifts of unconditional love. They  seem to recognize the insanity of the mystics because they are afraid of their own darkness and shadows. It is living outside your box in order to make room for the mystics.</p>
<p>To see and feel the pain of the mentallly challenged patients in the Mental Institution because there is no one there to care and truly listen to their broken hearts is quite an awakening experience. We need to wake up as one collective consciousness to be aware that our world is not cut out for everyone. We have all different gifts and voices to be heard in the midst of our dark nights. We have the birthright to voice our true spirit and longings of our souls, where no one dares to thread. I am the voice of a mystic that truly feels the pain and sufferings of being ridiculed, judged and labeled. Enough is enough. We need to voice and see the beautiful gifts of the mystics outside the monasteries. We are here, to serve our humanity elevate their consciousness and become one with the Divine Source of everything. We are all one, children of God whatever God means for you.</p>
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		<title>The power of forgiveness</title>
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		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes.&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/15/the-power-of-forgiveness/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes. We learn to let go of the past, pain and heal our cellular memories and consciousness.</p>
<p>The Universe will surely test and give us more situations that will trigger more unforgivenes, until we truly get the lesson behind this situation which is unconditional love. The hidden gem is all about our love for ourselves. If we truly love ourselves, we will not allow thoughts that will harm us in anyway. When we withold love, we create lower vibration that are emotions like guilt, anger, revenge, resentment, anxiety, within our consciousness and thus create stress in our health and being. We become hard on ourselves and we create an armor around our hearts. Our hearts become a perfect ground to breed unwanted feelings and negative emotions. These emotions ruts in our hearts and our souls are stuck in this darkness. We become victims of our own consciousness and when this happen we are separated from our Source. The Source is about love, unity and harmony. We are not here to experience pain and sufferings but to be in the space of love and grace.</p>
<p>We forget who we are, we are spiritual beings in our human suits, all of our dramas are our own creations because we attract who we are inside our hearts. When we see beyond our pain and see the bigger picture we will know that we are all in the same boat. That we experience all these situations in different forms, the question is do we ever get the lessons that we are trying to learn? We all have conscious choices to make in this lifetime, to live a happy life or to be stuck in this negative situation within ourselves and others. Let us wake up and take responsibility for the state of our consciousness.</p>
<p>Blaming others for our state of mind is not going to help us in the present moment. Like the bite of a snake, the bite is long gone but we still suffer the venom of the snake&#8217;s bite. We are caught in the poison of the snake, this is the venom of this unforgiveness path. We create more pain by holding this crooked path in our existence. The garden of our hearts is like a landscape, we need to weed out bad weeds like ill feelings and grudges in order to reap good fruits in our harvest. Forgiving the past is not easy but when we want to move forward, we choose to forgive then let go of the past. Focus on your chosen path and follow your heart. This is the return to home, your heart is where your home is. </p>
<p>This is our Sacred Contract, to be with this certain person to experience pain and forgiveness. In the bigger picture, without this situation we are not going to learn the lesson of forgiveness. When we start to see things as is and send blessings to the enemy so to speak, we find this inner peace deep within our hearts. We feel light and we are in the space of grace and Divine&#8217;s love. Only through these dark nights of our souls we can achieve true forgiveness and learn the lesson. If we keep denying our own pain and blaming others for how we feel, we will just go in a circle of drama and we keep attracting the same situation with different actors so to speak.</p>
<p>We transcend our pain by forgiving and letting go of this negative karma, we allow the space and power of healing our hearts. We become co creator of our lovely and happy experiences. We choose to empower ourselves and allow our selves to expand into this beautiful creation of God whatever God means for you. We learn to trust the flow of love into our experiences and we become happier in our existence when we connect to the Akashic Records of our souls. This is the secret path to tap into the Akashic Records. We can not touch this when we have unforgiveness in our existence because the heart of our human collective consciouseness is in the realm of our souls. We can only go through the high vibrations of our souls when we connect to the Source of our existence. Our souls vibrate in the frequency of love and light and we have to be align and congruent with our souls in order to have access to the Akashic Records. People are mistaken if they think that you have to be smart in order to access your Akashic Records, it&#8217;s actually the heart that needs to be pure to access this high frequency of vibration of love and light. God sees us beyond our mind&#8217;s perceptions, but within our heart&#8217;s lies the wisdom of our Source. This is the path of our return to home, where love is. There is no sense in holding pain, anger and resentment in our existence because we only give ourselves a more difficult path to thread to. </p>
<p>Let us forgive ourselves first in order to experience true forgiveness for others. We don&#8217;t need to be with them but to allow the space of grace and love within our being. It creates a new pattern of experiences and we become more align to manifest our dreams in this lifetime. Let us live in the present moment consciously choosing to forgive. &#8221; I now declare to the Universe and Source that I&#8217;m forgiving others who consciously or unconsciously had hurt me in the past and I also ask others to forgive me for hurting them consciously or unconsciously through my thoughts, words and actions, let it be done. May the flow of grace and love be with me in this lifetime. Amen.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Virgin Archetype Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 20:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/03/virgin-archetype-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas or thoughts, their sexuality on how they want to be in control, to prevent them from having  an intimate union with another person.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost to the detrimental of having fear about their own bodies and feelings of guilt that they are not perfect and not good enough to be with someone. It creates an illusion that they are in control of their bodies but it actually becomes an escape for intimacy. They become dependent of the need for approval of their bodies and they want the illusion that they are in control of their temple and that this will make them become respected by others. It is an ego in a form of control of their bodies. The obsession of the body and control is the shadow of this archetype and it can be transcended once the person becomes aware of the energetic component of this archetype.</p>
<p>Looking through the temple of their bodies, they carry the separation from others on how they intimately see and feel the world. The Virgin archetype has an intense inner focus. She is spiritually orientated and more concerned with the inner world than the outer world. She is now making a come back as women everywhere are beginning to follow their own hearts and dreams to manifest a reality other than that of partnerships, motherhood and child rearing. Often they are unmarried, but this did not mean that they were necessarily asexual. In fact, some of the virgin goddesses expressed their sexuality openly, owning their sexuality proudly and without shame. It was not given away or bartered or owned by their partners, it was wholly and solely within their dominion.</p>
<p>The union of body and spirit is not experience due to hiding behind the shadow of this virgin archetype. One has to realized that they need to have balance and intimate union with their own self to know that this can be transcended and learn the spiritual lesson of this archetype to fully function and become intimate with another soul. You have to know the fragmented parts of your archetypes that you are afraid to face or learn. Everything is about evolution and power, the path to finding the positive in the negative shadow of your archetypes will help you in learning the soul&#8217;s purpose. Every soul is different and you have to personalize the lesson and ask yourselves series of questions to help you figure out what is the lesson behind this archetype. Aks things that you are afraid of facing, what are your fears? what are the things that you are called to do and not to do? What is the pattern of this archetype? What can I do to help myself transcend this archetype and learn the lesson? It is about discovering your archetypal energy and how you can transcend them into positive light to help yourself become wholesome and bring light to your shadows.</p>
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		<title>Prostitute Archetype Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 21:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>&#8220;I declare to the Universe that I&#8217;m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!&#8221;</p>
<p>This archetype is not only about sexuality but it&#8217;s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It&#8217;s usually when one doesn&#8217;t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/12/22/prostitute-archetype-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I declare to the Universe that I&#8217;m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!&#8221;</p>
<p>This archetype is not only about sexuality but it&#8217;s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It&#8217;s usually when one doesn&#8217;t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of married women are actually carrying these Archetypal energy. When they are not happy in their partnerships but feel they have to stay because of their survival.</p>
<p>Self empowerment is a gift, knowing your prostitute archetype is a tool when you can transcend this energy. One realizes that the spirit is more important than all of these material stuff and dependency that we surround ourselves with. What&#8217;s important is the relationships that are loving and truthful, when we stop denying and pretending that we are happy with the other person or situations that we are involve with. We open oourselves to honest, peaceful and loving relationships with our own self and others.</p>
<p>What makes a person to sell his spirit short? The root of this is fear of the unknown, when you are afraid to be who you are, you attract this fear and creates a shadow that blinds you to your truth, which is your spirit or light. When one is in the survival mode and can not find the inner strength to live the truth. It is an illusion of your true self, denying the power that resides within you. You are afraid to become big and empowered. One finds inner strength and becomes a true peaceful warrior of the light when he realizes that his inner spirit is more important to materialism. It doesn&#8217;t only involve materials it can also becomes a dependency to relationships that are harmful to your soul&#8217;s evolution.</p>
<p>This archetype teaches you to find your voice, to know your true self which is your spirit. When you align the mind with your heart you create the authenticity of your soul. Becoming conscious of your choices, that every single choice that we make will affect everything in our present moment. Finding your voice or self expression that will lead to your highest potential and highest good. You become open to what is and create expansion in your existence. You live outside the box and connect to your soul&#8217;s purpose. You enlighten your mind in all aspects of your attachments with materials and others. You become a free spirit.You thrive in all of those that you touch, with endurance, integrity and honor code that you make between you and your God whoever is your God. </p>
<p>The truth is about discovering your self and knowing what you truly desires and living your soul&#8217;s purpose. The situation is here to serve you to see the bigger picture of your life. When you shift your perspective this way, you use the situation to help and empower you to become who you are suppose to be. Use it like a compass in finding your inner strength. Forgive those who have harmed you and surrender to the Divine calling of your life. You have so many graces to receive  when you face your challenges and honor your integrity. When you meditate and clear your emotional fields one can find inner peace with the situation. It helps to be at peace and it&#8217;s useless to blame anyone for where you are at because this situation happens to help you find your truth and it doesn&#8217;t help you if you are stuck in blaming others. Take the responsibility for yourself because you are always a co creator of anything that comes to you.</p>
<p>Miracles take place when you surrender everything to God, love is the only true power that we have. Everything else is an illusion. When your heart is open, you open your life to all the possibilities that you want to experience. Trusting and having that leap of faith that everything that happens is for all the good of those who follow the will of God. We are just instruments in this lifetime, we are ask to see beyond illusions and become conscious of our creations. See the gifts that you have inside and follow your heart. The wisdom lies inside this heart that beats as one. One with the Universal flow of life and connects to the Universal Mind of God. </p>
<p>The ability to heal this prostitute archetype is know where and what is the pattern of your disempowerment. When you discover the truth and accept that you have been going through this energy of selling short your spirit, you will find some light in the areas that you need to acknowledge where you are stuck. Acceptance is an important factor in healing because you are not stuck in denial, then you can face the truth without shame or guilt. Being hard on yourself is not going to help you but truly, being kind and compassionate towards yourself is the key to freedom of your spirit. Forgiveness for others and forgiving yourself for whatever happend in the past and living in the present moment will transform your mind, body and heart consciousness. </p>
<p>It is time to shift this prostitute to what is our truth with the Universal flow of love and forgiveness between all of us. We all have harmed each other in some ways that we are unconscious. Let us unite our consciousness in one field of love and light. When we shift this separation, we feel connected to the Universal power and we are empowered sentient beings experiencing the Divine flow of love and peace. Together we can make a difference in this world and be a powerful soul family in our evolution to becoming a dynamic, universal, progressive, conscious sentient beings in our planet Earth.<br />
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