This question reminds me of my daughter when we used to go for long drive, she will scream and say “are we there yet?” and it’s a sign of boredom and anticipation. Don’t know what brought me to this question but truly this reminds me of myself..asking did I reach my destination yet? Where is my destination? they say it’s not the destination but the journey that counts! I guess I can agree to that insight, for me it doesn’t really matter about the destination it’s the journey that makes this life worth living for and I live this life with passion and love.

Of course the destination is the vision and the visualizations that comes with it, the inspiration that we take to make our dreams come true. It is somewhat like a future map to where we want to be in 5 or 10 yrs per say, so we still need this and it’s quite important to have this but we don’t need to be blinded by this vision but truly enjoy what’s in our plate right here, right now.

Looking back I know I’ve come along ways…I now have developed the patience, tolerance, non judgemental attitude towards my self, bigger vision and perception, holistic approach, expansive view that’s how I call it..when you are in it and become an observer of all the things that are happening yet you are not attached to the result or expectations to the outcome of the vision or project. I become free from all of the illusions of this world. You can say that I’m in this world yet I’m not from this world. Whatever it is, all I’m trying to say is that I had evolved as a human being conscious enough to know that I’m a part of whatever drama I’m into and whatever is given in my plate is what I have to face. I don’t run away anymore, I face it with love, commitment to my self first then to others, determination to work things out for the truth and freedom of spirit. This is a good space where you feel loved and not threatened.

I believe the common denominator of not living your life in the present moment is FEAR! when you realized that you are running away from anything it is because of this fear, not knowing that this is actually will bring the biggest lesson in your transformation. You are running away from something that you can’t face yet this is an illusion to start with and the only way to solve this is to face it with courage and say this is ENOUGH! The responsibility is mine and I’m the only one who can save my self from this illusion.

I find that most people can’t find their strength is because of the mind conditioning that they’ve received when they were children, is one of the root cause of this problem. When the people that are suppose to love and take care of you turn around and abused you, how can you feel loved! It takes a lot of courage and self love to be able to surpass this painful journey but surely there is always a light at the end of this tunnel. Sometimes we just have to jump with a quantum leap of faith! Believe in your self and that the rest of the good things will follow. There is no guarantee to anything but for sure you can pat your self for trying and courage for turning another stone in your life path.

When you think you have learned the lesson that’s when for sure the Universe will give you another one that asks, you really think so? Until you get to the bottom of the pits and finally opened your eyes to your self, that after all there is only your self at the end of this journey and it’s you who has the CHOICES who you’re going to allow and walk in this journey of life. The choices right in front of your eyes just like the destination is right within your self only we were too blind to see that since the start it is us that draws this journey and we also hold the keys to this journey on who, what, where, and how we are going to create this BEAUTIFUL DREAM. Dehypnothised yourself from all of these illusions and create a life that is full of love, joy and peace in every moment of your waking moments and breaths! LIVE, LOVE and LAUGH!

Namaste,

Teza

This is one of the most difficult lessons in life, as for humanity to do this, one has to bend his own ego to realize that after all the drama and blaming it all comes to this.. forgive yourself and others as this will open a window of growth and space for the seed of love to bloom once again where it was rotten. A sign of new life and allowing growth of your soul to bloom and give the aromatic scent of love and forgiveness.

Easier said than done, but how can one allow this space when one is stuck with pain and “what the other person did to me!” resides in once heart? The wisdom is knowing that there is a lighter way of going through this is quite an emotional rescue, in order to find the answer in the midst of confusion and know that this too will pass.

It has a lot to do with acceptance whatever is in your plate right now. This is what it is and it is a mirror, a reflection of what you have to heal. The Universe is telling you that after all these years you are still unconscious of your unhealed pain body or emotions that are stuck deep in the abyss of your heart. These are cycles of pattern that your soul is thirsty or hungry for, you have a soul contract with other person that you will manifest in this physical dimension and he or she will be the one who will break open your heart to teach you the lesson of forgiveness. So if you are awake, you will know that this person who had harmed you is actually your partner in crime..literally speaking, you have agreed in the spiritual dimension that you will be attracting this in your life and you will create a situation that will make you see or open your heart to what forgiveness truly means.

When one is able to see the hidden meaning of this painful experience, one will be able to transcend this experience and ultimately learn to let go of any animosity or toxin in once heart. When one carried the pain of the other person’s action it becomes a burden or baggage to your self. One must realized that you are still connected energetically or bonded when you are still carrying the pain of the drama. Only when one is liberated from this drama and detached completely to the action that one finds freedom and the self is free from any attachments. One has to realized that so as the other person a part of this so are you. This is a two way street so for you to be a part of this drama know that there is some thing in you that needed to heal as well.

When there is nothing to forgive one can say there is freedom and truth, because truly the spirit is love and pure there is nothing to be forgiven, but to allow the spirit of love to reside in your heart and being so as not to harm anyone that you touch. We are all one in spirit, in body, mind, heart and soul. Many souls in one body!

Namaste!

Teza

Today I have this enormous source or well of energy to create and let my gifts flow without interruptions or worries about “what would others think of me?” This is quite the story of my life until now…I finally found my creative self! What made these mental and emotional blockages that misaligned me from this source of energy within me? Asking these questions bring me to a place where I was in the past and usually these “past thoughts” of myself is what took me away from this source of energy. I was stuck in the past, worried about what other people think about me and my unique self. Growing up with 9 siblings it’s not that easy to become “you” because you are always looking up to your elders and others perceptions of you.

Well this is my journey, I call it “a return to home” where is the home? have you ever wonder where is your true home? Is it your heart? your place where you sleep? Is it your spirit? your body? your mind? These are places where we can find home. Depending on what your beliefs tell you so. I found “beliefs” are truly the most influential in this physical realm that we live in, our external realities in life seems to be always connected with our own values or beliefs. With that said I know my beliefs were very strong and quite restricted living in a Catholic belief where “sins” are dominant factor where they judge you if you are good or bad, then there’s the confession of sins that made me “neurotic”. Well just one of my perception and it doesn’t need to be taken seriously but just to give you a shadow where I’m coming from.

What was the journey that I took where it leads me here? I ask myself and want to share my path because I always want to empower others and inspire them that there is hope in times of doubt and despair. I study a lot of different approaches to life and religion is one of the path in finding your truth,  what I found is that every one of them have the same “Universal Laws” that resonated with each other like love, peace and harmony. I came into a conclusion that whatever way you choose will lead you to your own self or others because we are one in spirit and body. Different souls in one body! As I become consciously evolved human being I found my path is not different from others. It is living in non-duality and oneness that create this perception. My judgement doesn’t help bring enlightenment but separation. I see people as a part of me and their mistakes is just a part of mine. Because I am a part of this consciousness and the only way to know is when I stop judging others selves and their beliefs. This is what I learned from the TAO teachings and BUDDHISM taught me about impermanence, loving  towards self and starting where you are. I can go on and on about the lessons that I learned and continue learning but at the end of the day what is important is the relationships that I create in my everyday moments. I ask myself if I spend enough time to stop, breathe, love, give, and be kind to whoever I’m with. The wisdom is not being wise but that my actions are wiser than what I knew before I become light and love.

Again this creativity brings me back to allowing my self to be in alignment with my “GOD” and the God of others with respect and none judgement attitude towards humanity. No resistance to the Universal calling where I am moving in the flow and allowing whatever it brings me. That my world is comprised of dualities and that everything passes and will bring me freedom in my attachment to circumstances that I have no control of. That my power is just to allow, gentle way of doing things, letting go of my own little control and I am with the source to be who I am to be and become “BE” no more “DOING” but JUST BE!

Creativity is what we are here for, just like Dr. Wayne Dyer keeps saying “don’t die when the music is still in you!” there is effortlessness in your passion and your creation will take you to a space of love, peace and joy. Trust your little voice that tells you “You are it!” You are connected to that grace of movement where there is fire, water, earth and air. You are one with the Universe and you are one!

The world is unconsciously healing their own inner child that’s why there is a lot of commotion about Michael Jackson’s death. This is an archetype of inner child and when we grieved his loss we are actually attracted to this because we our selves are grieving for our own inner child. Being a healer for some reason this 2 wks I was attracting inner child issues and it just dawn on me that this is what is happening to our own current events about Michael.

As his name he is an archetype of angel, and when he died he actually fulfill his mission which is to awaken our own inner child. Our lives is eternal and when we manifest here, we are just fulfilling our purpose and intention. Children are pure energy, they are innocent, loving, kind, and these are the pure essence of our souls. We are children of this world if we allow ourselves to be one with this inner child.

When we are growing we have develop our beliefs which are sometimes marred by mentors, who our parents and teachers but sometimes they are not true to themselves as well and so we become confused and lost to our own truth. You block the true essence of who you are and you become this person of DOING and not BEING!

This process of grief is to be able to have a breakthrough the barriers that cover your filter, clearing your mind and allowing you to connect to your heart and thus connects you with your inner child. I walk in nature with my clients to bring back to them the memories of childhood. And slowly reunite them to their inner child. I find that this is the first step in healing because we have to touch the roots of sufferings. Allowing the feelings to arise and become aware of where the pain is deeply ingrained.

The CLEAR method is about clearing your mind and illusions that prevent you from tapping to your essence. There is only love and this will help you to be who you are. The process is painful but this will bring you back to the truth. Our lives here on earth is short, we have to connect to our own inner child in order to fulfill our lives. Without this we are lost and confused on what is truly important and what you are all about. Love is all we need, all we need is love!

Relationships are your mirrors to yourself, whatever you see within the other person is how you are inside yourself. This is an inner reflection of how you are inside yourself, because they are here for a reason and whatever you see is what you feel inside. The Universe is giving you things that reflects about yourself because we are one, holographic point of view.  When a person looks at life this way, they will be enlighten about their own selves on what they need to let go or learn, usually its judgements about their own selves. What goes around comes around, you attract this into your life to magnify your inner selves.

I was reflecting on human relationships and it dawn on me that we attract what our souls need during that particular time. Meaning when you are with someone, this person brings to you what you needed to learn. If it’s unconditional love or forgiveness, at first you thought this person will bring to you things that will make you happy and fulfilled, but truly this person will bring out to you things that you needed to accept or learn.

The depth of your intimacy will bring out your shadows and vulnerability of the ego and self. Everything that you see within the person is what is inside of you, a mirror of your inner self. When you look at relationship this way, you will find true loving kindness towards your self and others. You will reflect and stop, thinking  that whatever I see in you is what I needed to know about myself. This is quite a miracle when you reflect to feel that this is what is happening here and you are too busy in pointing this matter to the other person.

When I look back at my past I can honestly say that my partner had brought me healing and mirrored to me what I needed to face. During those times I didn’t see the gift he was offering because of course I was in pain. But now as I evolved spiritually I learned that he was actually a blessing to my existence because through him I’ve learned true forgiveness and loving kindness towards myself. So in this lifetime this person served as my soul contract and became my partner in life. Even though that particular relationship was abusive it served it’s purpose. I’m not saying that someone should experience abuse in relationships but what I’m pointing out here is looking at the bigger picture of why this person was in my life and what I needed to learn from him.

The grace in knowing this is your lifetime is that you  become light and you’ve transcend the true meaning of unconditional love. Truly we are one in spirit and knowing this in my heart, it releases the other person in entanglement within  my energy field, which forgiveness brings when truly realized. REAL ationships is truly transforming, deeper than you know, it brings out your shadows, unconditional and loving, it’s paradoxical in a way that it takes you to the other side of what you think it is, its ups and downs will bring to you clarity and strength, keeps you grounded and inspired.

When I’m with someone I ask myself what is my soul longing to know from this transient being, then it brings me back to focus that it’s all about love and not fear. That there is nothing to fear about but to embrace the shadows and let go of the ego but truly open my heart to this person be it a child or an elder, there is always a gift for the soul and being. The beauty of it all is when you can see through the naked eye. The things that are unseen are then the most important things in life. The things that touched your heart is what is important, the illusion of what your eyes sees are the imaginations of this world. When we tap inside our inner selves, it brings you back to your beautiful self and the people that surrounds you feel the presence of love and truth.

The big paradox is that whatever relationship you have within yourself is what relationship you will get. They are mirrors of you, a reflections of your self. When you bring your fragmented self into wholesomeness then  it will be clear to you that you attract the same self that you are. There is no separation or boundary only to the veils of illusionary eyes. What you see is what you get. The challenge is seeing beyond the form and allowing its existence, believing that there is a purpose and become inspired of what is in front of you. There is always a path and choice that will lead you to what you’re  looking for but sometimes we are too blind to see what is in front of us is what we need. Our inner self is the guide every time we are lost,  we have to look within and tap into our heart, the compass to true self. It will speak to you and your responsibility is to listen and engage into that communication  and be able to share openly to those who surrounds you.

This will bring you true happiness and knowing yourself is the master to your destiny. There is only love and that love has to take place within you. Be loving and kind to yourself and your relationships will produce these fruits. The tree of life is grounded in its roots which is the foundation of life. These roots has to be grounded in self love so as to find strength to withstand any storms. The lesson is about self love and kindness, nature will bring you back to who you are, a beautiful master piece.