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		<title>Akashic Records fruit of Unconditional love</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 16:13:13 +0000</pubDate>
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Unconditional love is a fruit of purification that happens within the soul&#8217;s journey of a human being. It is a fruit meaning you have to undergo a process that will entail purifying your negative thoughts in the mental fields, your toxic emotions or emotions that calibrate low in the map of consciousness according to Dr. David Hawkins of Power versus Force such as shame, guilt, apathy, grief and fear, clearing your consciousness into the present moment. Removing blockages that stops you from being your highest potential. Releasing unforgiveness from the heart, unconscious negative beliefs in your cellular memory&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/16/unconditional-love-though-the-akashic-records/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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Unconditional love is a fruit of purification that happens within the soul&#8217;s journey of a human being. It is a fruit meaning you have to undergo a process that will entail purifying your negative thoughts in the mental fields, your toxic emotions or emotions that calibrate low in the map of consciousness according to Dr. David Hawkins of Power versus Force such as shame, guilt, apathy, grief and fear, clearing your consciousness into the present moment. Removing blockages that stops you from being your highest potential. Releasing unforgiveness from the heart, unconscious negative beliefs in your cellular memory and cellular tissues, unresolved Karmic bonds from  family, lineage and DNA level of cellular memory and consciousness. Healing the soul and accessing your Akashic Records to create a space of grace and unconditional love. This soul&#8217;s evolution is transcending human consciousness into the Divine&#8217;s heart of unconditional love and wisdom.</p>
<p>There are stages of development or process that we go through as human beings before we achieve a level of enlightenment or inner peace. We have to undergo a lot of detachments from all things, relationships, and other wordly attachments, it&#8217;s called detoxification.  The space that we clear becomes empty and is now ready to be the vehicle of light that the Merkabah or Star Lotus can now freely travel and connect to your being. Our physical existence or body protects and holds this light body. When we are in pain our body is telling us energetically that we are carrying toxin in which ever part of the body the illness manifest. This is how we use the Chakra Energy centers to detect what issues are we going through and which dynamics of energy we need to heal and release these blockages. We are made of waves of vibrations of light particles and love is the magnifying life force that holds us here in our existence. The Source of our creation holds our blue prints when we are created in our mother&#8217;s womb, we are holding these blueprints of our souls. Given to us manifesting the grand creations of God. We are being energetically link to the Divine&#8217;s Soul of love and wisdom. We have to fill the void with unconditional love from the Divine then we can see and feel love for ourselves and others. Our human conditioning prevents us from fully accessing our Divine self. We are not alone in this soul&#8217;s journey, ask and you shall receive. When we ask for healing, support, guidance and direction we are spiritually guided in our higher dimension which is our soul. Our Akashic Records evolves as we change and transform into more loving and enlighten being. When you are able to align these physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and soul bodies of your existence you become expansive and magnified in a blissful state of co creation with the Divine&#8217;s love and wisdom. </p>
<p>The Stages of Clearing for Unconditional love:</p>
<p>1. Awakening from painful situations that you have, if it&#8217;s drama or sufferings become aware that everything is energy and that relationships are your mirrors. This is the victim consciousness, the Archetypes of Saboteur, Victim, Prostitute and Child they serves as your catalyst for transformation and shift. See the signs, listen to your dreams and guides for deeper reflection of what is happening. Take full responsibility for attracting these situations, you need to clear more subtle bodies that are still not in alignment with your bright soul. Just like a diamond in a rough, you need this perfect brilliance to become a vehicle of light to others and the Universe. Clarity, inner strength and courage to move on by forgiving yourself and others. </p>
<p>2. Awareness of your soul&#8217;s purpose, this is a fire that continually ignites your being. This stage is when you become an observant of your situations, starts practicing meditation, healing, paying attention and listening to your body, mind and emotions. Grounding your soul&#8217;s purpose, you realize that you are not about work and you become less attach to what the world affairs are going through. You open your Third Eye Chakra and can see beyond the veil. The truth sets you free and you let go of attachments. You become aware of your bigger purpose and service to humanity. This can be anything from your creative nature, healing others, helping children, being a writer, being a mentor to others, advocating for victims, anything that makes you happy and brings out your passion. See your Archetypal energy patterns, those are your guides and compass to your destination. </p>
<p>3. Alignment to your soul&#8217;s purpose through a process of connecting to your spiritual guides, balancing and clearing  of your Chakra Energy  Centers, aligning your physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and soul levels of bodies into your present moment. All energy fields will be clear at this stage and challenges will come as grounds for empowerment. Bringing the transmission of Divine&#8217;s unconditional love and light into your blueprint which is your Akashic Records that is link to all that is, the collective consciousness of humanity. Paradigm shift from victimhood into empowerment.  </p>
<p>4. Ascension and Activation of your DNA, cellular tissues, fibers, memories and consciousness into Divine&#8217;s love and wisdom. Remembering your home where your heart is. Paradigm shift from being &#8220;me&#8221; to &#8220;we&#8221;. Energetically link to the Ascended Masters, Archangels and angels, Saints and spiritual guides for protection, healing, support, direction, clarity and guidance. Return to home, your soul&#8217;s access to your Akashic  Records and others. Being a vehicle of unconditional love and light. Manifestation and co creation of paradise in your fields. Heaven on Earth experiences and transcending lower vibrations of emotions into love and peace. Your presence dissipates darkness or negative energy, becoming one with the Source and all sentient beings. </p>
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		<title>The power of forgiveness</title>
		<link>http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/15/the-power-of-forgiveness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 06:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes.&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/15/the-power-of-forgiveness/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes. We learn to let go of the past, pain and heal our cellular memories.</p>
<p>The Universe will surely test and give us more situations that will trigger more unforgivenes, until we truly get the lesson behind this situation which is unconditional love. The hidden gem is all about our love for ourselves. If we truly love ourselves, we will not allow thoughts that will harm us in anyway. When we withold love, we create lower vibration that are emotions like guilt, anger, revenge, resentment, anxiety, within our consciousness and thus create stress in our health and being. We become hard on ourselves and we create an armor around our hearts. Our hearts become a perfect ground to breed unwanted feelings and negative emotions. These emotions ruts in our hearts and our souls are stuck in this darkness. We become victims of our own consciousness and when this happen we are separated from our Source. The Source is about love, unity and harmony. We are not here to experience pain and sufferings but to be in the space of love and grace.</p>
<p>We forget who we are, we are spiritual beings in our human suits, all of our dramas are our own creations because we attract who we are inside our hearts. When we see beyond our pain and see the bigger picture we will know that we are all in the same boat. That we all experience these situations in our lifetimes, the question is do we ever get the lessons that we are trying to learn? We all have conscious choices to make in this lifetime, to live a happy life or to be stuck in this negative situation within ourselves and others. Let us wake up and take responsibility for the state of our consciousness and our hearts.</p>
<p>Blaming others for our state of mind is not going to help us in the present moment. Like the bite of a snake, the bite is long gone but we still suffer the venom of the snake&#8217;s bite. We are caught in the poison of the snake, this is the venom of this unforgiveness path. We create more pain by holding this crooked path in our existence. The garden of our hearts is like a landscape, we need to weed out bad weeds like ill feelings and grudges in order to reap good fruits in our harvest. Forgiving the past is not easy but when we want to move forward, we choose to forgive then let go of the past. Focus on your chosen path and follow your heart. This is the return to home, your heart is where your home is. </p>
<p>This is our Sacred Contract, to be with this certain person to experience pain and forgiveness. In the bigger picture, without this situation we are not going to learn the lesson of forgiveness. When we start to see things as is and send blessings to the enemy so to speak, we find this inner peace deep within our hearts, we feel light and we are in the space of grace and Divine&#8217;s love. Only through this dark nights of our souls we can achieve true forgiveness and learn the lesson. If we keep denying our own pain and blaming others for how we feel, we will just go in a circle of drama and we keep attracting the same situation with different actors so to speak.</p>
<p>We transcend our pain by forgiving and letting go of this negative karma, we allow the space and power of healing our hearts. We become co creator of our lovely and happy experiences. We choose to empower ourselves and allow our selves to expand into this beautiful creation of God whoever God is for you. We learn to trust the flow of love into our experiences and we become happier in our existence when we connect to the Akashic Records of our souls. This is the secret path to tap into the Akashic Records. We can not touch this when we have unforgiveness in our existence because the heart of our human collective consciouseness is in the realm of our souls. We can only go through the high vibrations of our souls when we connect to the Source of our existence. Our souls vibrate in the frequency of love and light and we have to be align and congruent with our souls in order to have access to the Akashic Records. People are mistaken if they think that you have to be smart in order to access your Akashic Records, it&#8217;s actually the heart that needs to be pure to access this high frequency of vibration of love and light. God sees us beyond our mind&#8217;s perceptions, but within our heart&#8217;s lies the wisdom of our Source. This is the path of our return to home, where love is. There is no sense in holding pain, anger and resentment in our existence because we only give ourselves a more difficult path to thread to. </p>
<p>Let us forgive ourselves first in order to experience true forgiveness for others. We don&#8217;t need to be with them but to allow the space of grace and love within our being. It creates a new pattern of experiences and we become more align to manifest our dreams in this lifetime. Let us live in the present moment consciously choosing to forgive. &#8221; I now declare to the Universe and Source that I&#8217;m forgiving others who consciously or unconsciously had hurt me in the past and I also ask others to forgive me for hurting them consciously or unconsciously through my thoughts, words and actions, let it be done. May the flow of grace and love be with me in this lifetime. Amen.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m out of my Divine mind, where in the ego am I?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 01:17:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>This message was given to me when I opened my business in October 2009. The case is about a mother who passed away at the age of 47 and never finished her book,  titled &#8220;I Am Out of  My Divine Mind, Where in the Ego Am I?&#8221;  it is a deep question and the way I see it interpreted in my deep recollections is that we are all out of our Divine mind when we are too busy thinking about what to do next on the list. As if our lives is but a collection of check marks&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/09/03/im-out-of-my-divine-mind-where-in-the-ego-am-i/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>This message was given to me when I opened my business in October 2009. The case is about a mother who passed away at the age of 47 and never finished her book,  titled &#8220;I Am Out of  My Divine Mind, Where in the Ego Am I?&#8221;  it is a deep question and the way I see it interpreted in my deep recollections is that we are all out of our Divine mind when we are too busy thinking about what to do next on the list. As if our lives is but a collection of check marks of things to do and things to buy. Wow! how did we ever get to this minute  perception of what life should be. We become thinking and doing machines not realizing that we have these precious moments and doors of  opportunities to share the gifts we have as light beings of God. We are in denial of our own true light Divine existence. Why did we do this to our humanity&#8217;s integrity and respect for our selves and others? We become greedy of everything that we see, we want everything that is in  material form and in the world has for us.  We have forgotten that the special things are the things that we feel in our hearts not the things that are seen or for show off.</p>
<p>We have to wake up, with the way our economy, government functions and beliefs can influence our being, cyclical  natural events and catastrophes  of this lifetime are giving us signs for our evolution of consciousness. We need to know our souls perspective in order to function in our highest potential. We have to stay away from our thinking mind and recognized that the creative part of the brain will be the one who can give the right answer for your question. It is not easy to balance our right brain and left brain but the Pineal gland will integrate our electro magnetic fields to bring balance and anchor us to our existence. Just like the Earth have Shumann&#8217;s Resonance we as are human beings are the same organic being, we have this field of energy body in our system that should be more recognized in healing than healing only the physical symptoms of the diseases. We need to integrate our organic body with nature and stay away from all the toxicity that we develop and chemicals that we think will help in our healing. Healing first of all is beyond the body, it is the healing of the soul and our energy body that will make a big difference in our evolution of consciousness. But first we need to wake up from  all the destruction that we have created ourselves. It is time to turn the table around. We should look within our body and find that space of unconditional love for all sentient beings. Look within the soul and what feelings we have and totally connect to the stillness of the mind.</p>
<p>The ego is such a false voice in our being that we are so blind and deaf to what is the truth of our existence. We believe whatever we see and the unseen doesn&#8217;t make sense to us because we carry limited beliefs from our perception. We forgot to use and connect to our insights, gut feelings, instincts and energy body. We judge the book by its cover without reading the content and see for yourself. We are blind to our true self which is our spirit. When we start to wake up and smell the coffee we can accelerate our growth by this awareness. It will bring us freedom of spirit, liberation from all attachments and egoic concerns, fear, and other blockages that we human beings go through. The little things are more important than all these material things that we create and lose the essence of the heart of humanity.</p>
<p>The Divine mind is the Universal connection we have to each other, our human consciousness link to the eternal mind. Our ego is in our being to hold us grounded in this Earth, so we become balance in our spiritual walk of life. Our body, mind, heart and soul is all connected and these has to be align to the higher vibrations of our cellular consciousness to hold the vibrations of light and love. When we self recognized that we are beyond this physical body, we become aware and this is the first step of our enlightenment process. There are a lot of layers to peel off but the healing process can be a lot easier when there is surrendering of ones self to God or Higher Power because without this our existence becomes shallow to the surface and will just continue the Karmic cycle that we create in  our cellular DNA consciousness.</p>
<p>We are magnificent beings that truly resonate with God&#8217;s high vibratory frequency of light and love. The declaration to the Universe about our goddess qualities will enhance our existence and receive situations that will lead to that path of least resistance. I have created this declaration or intention with my son Theo and I&#8217;m sharing this to help others in their manifestation. &#8220;I declare to the Universe that I am empowered, successful in all aspects of life, manifesting abundance, true wealth, good health, happiness, unconditional love, inner peace, and expansion connecting to the force and power of the Universal energy flowing in my existence and being.&#8221; With this intention doesn&#8217;t mean that all good things will come to you sometimes things that happen will wake you up in your situations where there is light needed to help you transcend this lifetime. It is a blessing in disguise so to speak, but if you choose darkness then this Karma or action will just repeat itself and until you learn the lesson for your highest good and potential that this negative energy will dissipate.</p>
<p>We can not keep running away from our true calling and our heart&#8217;s desires they are the true compass in our existence. When we have accidents in life that wake us up to the core, we have to stop doing things that continually ruin our souls. We need inner reflections and truly listening to what the Universe is telling us. Our God or whoever or whatever God is for you will always be there to listen to our prayers or thoughts and intentions. We are all connected to this Divine matrix of energetic fields of light and love. There is no running away anymore, face your fear, accept your mistakes and be responsible for the consequences of your actions. The choice to have a better life is always at your hands. Enough pain and sufferings, be at peace with your own creations and self. Realizing this door of opportunity is here to give you another shot in life where there is love, there is no fear.</p>
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		<title>Clearing our heart space</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2011 14:16:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>As we travel this path of healing the heart and soul, there are a lot of aspects and deeper  inner work to become wholesome. The shady areas and darkness that are hidden within the ego and heart connection when we are not clear about ourselves and existence. When there is resistance to what is real and deny the truth of who we are we become the projector of the illusion. When we are blinded to what we don&#8217;t see and see only what the other person is doing or projecting,  usually what we see is what is inside&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/08/05/clearing-the-heart-space-with-unconditional-love/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>As we travel this path of healing the heart and soul, there are a lot of aspects and deeper  inner work to become wholesome. The shady areas and darkness that are hidden within the ego and heart connection when we are not clear about ourselves and existence. When there is resistance to what is real and deny the truth of who we are we become the projector of the illusion. When we are blinded to what we don&#8217;t see and see only what the other person is doing or projecting,  usually what we see is what is inside us hidden within our psyche, emotional and  mental bodies as well as our cellular consciousness. When we are in this illusion, we see others as threat but truly they are our angels,  messengers of our Divine selves to see who and what truly is our truth. The truth will set you free and this will bring you the freedom of your spirit and release you from any hidden illusions that you are in, like a cloud in the sky this too will passes by and gives you the clear picture of a blue sky.</p>
<p>We are many wonderful beings that truly is a gift of miracles in this lifetime. When we open our hearts to receive these many blessings and wonderful creations that we co create with Divine and higher self. As we move on and shift to our multidimensional selves that we are, we create and manifest in no time and space zone. As we think, shall it manifest right in the space that we are, we are magnificent co creators of this wondrous magical experiences that we have. The wisdom lies within our hearts and when we let go and surrender to our higher selves we become what we truly are  free spirits, no judgements for whatever experiences that transpire be it good or bad because truly there is no right or wrong. It is within us that co created this situation to learn our lesson and be in the flow of what we want in this lifetime. There are a lot of angels in your space and these messengers come to you for wake up call or just be in their beautiful space of unconditional love and compassion.</p>
<p>Balance is necessary way or step to live in between worlds, the mystique realms that we traverse and the physical reality that we are grounded into the heart of mother Gaia. When we separate ourselves as spirits and human bodies we don&#8217;t get the balance that we needed to get into the journey of our souls with ease, grace and effortlessly co creating our highest potential. We become our own enemies, we start hating others for their wrong doings yet blind to see our own part and participation in this situation. We need to accept our ego, embrace our weaknesses, surrender and allow ourselves the loving kindness and compassion that we share with others to be our foundation for our truth. When we allow this unconditional love we become at peace and one with all that is. When things happen and doesn&#8217;t go the way we like it, we become self centered and blind to see what is hidden within us. What we need to see is that the other person is our mirror. We see the other person or situations as mirrors of our disposition, and take inner reflections to be at peace within our selves and the other person. We become forgiving and loving, our deepest blockage in healing is ourselves, by being hard on us and not allowing space to breathe, taking that break and going deeper within ourselves we discover many gems and treasures hidden in the darkness. Without this darkness there is no light, so embrace the darkness and allow yourself to see the light that penetrate your being and Divine connection. This light is wisdom deep seated within our souls and when we return home to our Source we are one in this light, we are light and one with the Divine.</p>
<p>It is a big step for humanity to humble ourselves and see others as gifts even though they made mistakes, because of these mistakes that we learn our lessons and grow, so it is in our hands to allow healing and forgiveness to be our source of light and love. When we start to see others as a part of our consciousness, we become one with their actions and be the observant of the situation to allow healing to give way and surrender to this power of love. We are never going to move forward when we keep denying others of their existence because remembering who they are is but your own projections and creations is one step ahead of your knowledge. By you becoming the space to heal and knowing that whoever is in your field is a part of you and your consciousness then you become one with the Universal laws. Allowing the vibrations of forgiveness, compassion and love in your fields create this beautiful tapestry of human consciousness full of light, compassionate love and wisdom.</p>
<p>As we shift in the dynamics of this space of love, we become love and be loved. The only way to see others as love is to feel this from your heart,  where there is no separation and judgement but truly allowing others for their mistakes and owning responsibilities to your own integrity. Whatever transpires is but your own Karma and the Universe presents you again with another situation that will tests your integrity and freedom of spirit. This freedom is about not being attach to any situations, things and people. When we know that everything that we see and experience is our own doing we become conscious that we are the magnet of all that is. Then, there is no more blaming and judging because we know that we are in this situation because we created it. We are just asleep and did not remember our truth. Our truth will set us free, even if it hurts to see the truth, it will always make us free from our illusions of others.</p>
<p>In our eyes it is them, but in the eyes of truth it is us that are the creators of this illusion. So whatever is in front of your eyes and whatever you judge is for sure your own truth as well because this is created in your realm of illusion. Our illusions then become the compass of our truth so it is what it is. The lies that we see and feel is actually our own lies and feelings that we never acknowledge within our truth. The illusions are ours so forgive and let it be, let go of ill feelings because you are only creating more lies within your own self as you keep holding the truth right before your own eyes. The eyes of the heart, the emotions that we feel that needed to be release are the tears of cleansing and clearing the space of our heart. To err is human and to forgive is Divine.</p>
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		<title>Revelation of my Soul Part 1</title>
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		<title>Healing our relationship with the inner child</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 09:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Our humanity is in the verge of a great transformation, we are in the bridge of this quantum leap where we find ourselves being in touch with our shadows and recognizing that these only exist within the mind aspects of our egoic mind. When the mind attaches to any form, it is in the egoic state, so becoming aware of this, you find yourself asking is this real or just one of those thoughts? In relationships we find the paradox that what we see in others are actually a part of ourselves that we deny. Seeing our patterns&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2010/09/01/new-year-new-perceptions-new-dance-with-life/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Our humanity is in the verge of a great transformation, we are in the bridge of this quantum leap where we find ourselves being in touch with our shadows and recognizing that these only exist within the mind aspects of our egoic mind. When the mind attaches to any form, it is in the egoic state, so becoming aware of this, you find yourself asking is this real or just one of those thoughts? In relationships we find the paradox that what we see in others are actually a part of ourselves that we deny. Seeing our patterns of thoughts, then we can self realized that, the things that I say about them are actually the things that I want to be or have. Our shadows are in disguise with what we see is right or real. The truth is what we see is what we don&#8217;t see inside ourselves. Everything that you say about others is actually the opposite of what the truth is. We are learning that our soul is what holds the  true perspective of truth and peace. When we learn to decipher this code of the soul then we become align to what is the truth of our spirit and learn from humility becoming one with all sentient beings.</p>
<p>Darkness is actually a part of the womb&#8217;s atmospheric environment when we are inside our mother&#8217;s womb. In my analogy our darkness is an integral part of our being in a sense we have to be aware of their magnifying force and how it affects us in our way of living. They are just neutral energy that is here and a part of us, and if we can learn to accept and allow their existence and not be against it but be a part of it then we will find a peace of mind. I find in my journey that when I separate myself and say &#8220;this is not good for me, it is an addiction and I have to be hard on myself and stop doing this thing that prevents me from being holy!&#8221; then I truly lose the point of being a human. The point is we have negative shadows or darkness because we are still here, we are not in the spirit meaning we did not leave this third dimension yet. So when we die or leave this physical field, we are going to be in the pure essence of our souls.  The fact that we are here is because we are learning what humanity means. We are evolving souls that is why we need spiritual lessons to learn from our experiences. Don&#8217;t be hard on yourself but be loving, understanding and kind that there is hope in every despair. Start where you are and there is light in darkness.</p>
<p>We are &#8220;spiritual beings experiencing physical experiences&#8221; then if we are one in spirit then we are one right now. Our relationships are mirrors of our selves and  we attract what we are inside or what lessons are needed to learn. We are bigger than what we think we are, yet we will only know this when we tap into our own inner child. This is the beauty of God, when we act big we lose it but when we act small like children we connect to the Father or Mother God, because we are living our lives to the truth and this will set us free. The freedom of being who we are created in love and as manifestation of God&#8217;s love.</p>
<p>Healing our relationships with our inner child  is very important part of healing our wounded souls. When we don&#8217;t acknowledge this inner child our pattern of negative unconscious thoughts keeps revealing itself. We are not in tune to what this inner child needs to feel and heal. When a trauma happens especially during this foundation years of childhood, we lost trust and this is important in building relationships. The core root chakra that deals with stability and security within the family dynamics is damaged. The roots need to be excavated and replanted again in a new soil so to speak. You need to spend some time of reflecting with your inner child and treat this being as you are talking to your little self. Healing the inner child needs time, insights about what your present relationships are presenting to you and see what needs to to be in the light. We need to allow non judgemental thoughts regarding relationship that are causing disharmony and reflect inside how your feelings are.</p>
<p>When someone is  align and living in the present moment it allows expansion and clarity to see beyond the drama and find clarity of what is the deeper roots of the conflict. It doesn&#8217;t react but find a space of inner peace and  reflections about the drama. The Universe seems to recreate situations  that have the same root issues as long as this is not recognized and dealt with, this cycle will be brought to our attention in many different forms or events. Open your heart even if it breaks, because the truth will set us free. When we hold unto pain, brokenness and heartaches,  we lose the power of love.</p>
<p>Validating our feelings and clearly seeing what we ache for,  are the same feelings and dreams that we have when we were children. We are all longing for true love, understanding, caring, belonging and kindness that we matter and that we are love for being who we are and not for we are not. This is loving unconditionally when we receive love because of what we can&#8217;t change, what we can&#8217;t give or do but who we are regardless of our mistakes and flaws. We are love because we are ourselves and accepted for our existence and presence. It is a gift to love and something that we should cherish. Let us treasure our inner child and be the playmate forever. We are true children of God and that will never change. We are eternal souls for ever in awe of this magnificent creations for us to experience true love and awesome  sou journeys.</p>
<p>Blessings!</p>
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		<title>Fasten your seat belt, you&#8217;re in for a RIDE!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 05:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Life is like driving in a fast lane, making sure you wear your seat belt because in case of accident you will be &#8220;safer&#8221; than the latter. Guess what? life is not permanent, it has no certainties and it&#8217;s not accident free! We are here physically temporarily living in this physical dimension we call earth. Tonight when you go to sleep you can die and will never wake up to touch your loved ones or your own physical body anymore. How&#8217;s that for a wake up call! I&#8217;m quite feeling DRASTIC right at this moment because I sense&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2009/10/28/fasten-your-seat-belt-youre-in-for-a-ride/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Life is like driving in a fast lane, making sure you wear your seat belt because in case of accident you will be &#8220;safer&#8221; than the latter. Guess what? life is not permanent, it has no certainties and it&#8217;s not accident free! We are here physically temporarily living in this physical dimension we call earth. Tonight when you go to sleep you can die and will never wake up to touch your loved ones or your own physical body anymore. How&#8217;s that for a wake up call! I&#8217;m quite feeling DRASTIC right at this moment because I sense humanity never seems to listen when you are talking about &#8220;spiritual stuff&#8221; they push it away of shove it because everyone is in denial of the truth. They would rather hear how&#8217;s the show Gossip Girls drama went on last night rather than talking about what is truly important right now at this &#8220;crucial times&#8221; in elevating our consciousness to help our Mother Earth stay here and be safe with us.</p>
<p>This is what I&#8217;m all about, helping to raise our consciousness about what we are doing as awake conscious human being to each other and what is the rippling cause effect of this to us and the environment that we live in. Are you awake yet? there is no time to lose&#8230;wake up for goodness sake! Live the EGO behind and live light! Fluff your wings and fly to the nearest station of love&#8230;angelically speaking:)</p>
<p>I just attended a lecture from Paco Alarcon- Kahan and he talked about his info regarding the Mayan 2012, it was really awesome listening to him as he resonates with what I believe as well. He decoded the secrets about what is really is going to happen and what is happening now as we speak. I&#8217;m going to for more lectures this weekend and will be doing more studies with him. This is quite exciting for me and the work that I&#8217;m putting together for the EVOLUTION of CONSCIOUSNESS.</p>
<p>Our paths are here take your choice and live impeccably with your words, thoughts and deeds! This will create love and peace within your being and help others to do the same. The lesson is leading towards COMPASSIONATE WISDOM and UNITY. When we believe that we are all one, we become one. Together let&#8217;s build a foundation that is not build on control and separation but in oneness and freedom of spirit!</p>
<p>Namaste!</p>
<p>Teza</p>
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<p>Have you heard of this latest diagnosis regarding caregivers who get exhausted from giving too much&#8230;hmmm I know myself tend to do that so here I am putting myself first. Nurses needs to learn this lesson sometimes the hard way but it&#8217;s never too late. After weeks of dealing with residents having difficulty with Mental illness, death with family and violence @ work I found myself in DEAD ZONE where I had no energy left to even help myself.</p>
<p>It is a rude awakening to lose your BALANCE it&#8217;s all about this..whatever you do you need to&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2009/08/25/compassionate-fatigue/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Have you heard of this latest diagnosis regarding caregivers who get exhausted from giving too much&#8230;hmmm I know myself tend to do that so here I am putting myself first. Nurses needs to learn this lesson sometimes the hard way but it&#8217;s never too late. After weeks of dealing with residents having difficulty with Mental illness, death with family and violence @ work I found myself in DEAD ZONE where I had no energy left to even help myself.</p>
<p>It is a rude awakening to lose your BALANCE it&#8217;s all about this..whatever you do you need to center yourself and find your balance in whatever action you&#8217;re going to do. It was a shock how I can lose my balance when everything in my inner world was all about PEACE and MEDITATION. But as I take problems as an opportunities to become a better person or be in a better place, once again I took this as one of my LESSONS to LEARN.</p>
<p>These are the steps to keep your BALANCE:</p>
<p>1. Keep your routine! things that you do to keep your self sane! for me it&#8217;s meditation and yoga stretch in the morning. Writing as I go through my day.</p>
<p>2. Listen to your EMOTIONS, when you find yourself overwhelm with other peoples problems it&#8217;s a sign that you are trespassing others field. Meaning keep your COOL!</p>
<p>3. Watch for physical symptoms such as INSOMNIA that means you are not @ PEACE with your self. Mind, body and spirit when align keeps you in a SOUND SLEEP.</p>
<p>4. Feel your BODY, if you&#8217;re not doing exercise everyday you are forgetting your vehicle to BALANCE. A sound body and a sound mind keeps the Dr away.</p>
<p>5. LOVE your SELF FIRST! then you can love others. Caregivers tend to put themselves the last on the list. They like to rescue but they forget to help themselves.</p>
<p>Hope these simple pointers will help other rescuers like me! nice and sweet today nothing airy fairy! the angel is grounded I would stay being a nurse&#8230;and if someone needs an angel I can also be one.</p>
<p>Namaste,</p>
<p>Teza</p>
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		<title>Work&#8217;s gossip</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>What is it at work that makes you gossip about other people? It would be a lot better if we all have this ground rule on not to talk about other people if you are not going to say something nice. This will automatically shut a lot of backstabbing and gossips. When I go home after a days work, I reflect on things that have been said and things that I should have said in defense of the other party. I realized that I&#8217;m in this circle of co workers to help my self, and how is that?&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2009/06/17/works-gossip/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>What is it at work that makes you gossip about other people? It would be a lot better if we all have this ground rule on not to talk about other people if you are not going to say something nice. This will automatically shut a lot of backstabbing and gossips. When I go home after a days work, I reflect on things that have been said and things that I should have said in defense of the other party. I realized that I&#8217;m in this circle of co workers to help my self, and how is that? By choosing not be a participant of this malicious gossip. It takes a lot of discipline to do this. First I have to be aware that this is not good for me and toxic to my soul.</p>
<p>When I hear something negative right away I have to be aware that this is a red flag for me to say nothing and change the topic or even just say &#8220;I have no comment&#8221;. I can also tell the other person that may be we should change ourselves and start being nice to others by not talking about them when they are not here. I find that most complaints are about them. They are not happy about themselves and so they find something to talk about just because they are empty and unfulfilled. I believe when someone has a conflict it has to be resolve right away and not to wait for this to be bottled up inside of you and then it explodes.</p>
<p>When I have a misunderstanding with a co worker I usually approach and resolve the conflict. I like taking it to heart level and not ego or power trip on who&#8217;s right or wrong. This way I build trust and openness toward the person. In my experiences I find that there is a lot of mistakes along the way because of not being able to face the situation. When you hide anger or resentment it becomes an easy escape to gossip about this particular person. But when you open your heart and express your feelings the conflict usually resolves. For me one should be able to allow this open communication and see that everyone is entitle to this voice.</p>
<p>The most common problem that occurs is about insecurity of some one&#8217;s being, which I find in almost cases. For some reason people feel that what they do is who they are and becomes very defensive and sensitive when someone steps on what they do. There is a sense of territorial rights and one becomes protective about this false identity. I&#8217;m the total opposite, my intention at work is to bring harmony and teamwork. I believe when someone is aware of their being there is a sense of peace and does not attract this kind of situations. One should remember that when conflicts arise, that they are the magnet and it will help when they take the time to reflect. There is a space where they can go and learn the lesson that this situation is calling for.</p>
<p>Our work place would be a better place if everyone would take the responsibility to choose peace and understanding with one another. Why would you like to come to a place where there is chaos and feelings of not wanted? When you can turn it around and build a place of love.</p>
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