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		<title>The power of forgiveness</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 06:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes.&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/15/the-power-of-forgiveness/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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Forgiveness is the foundation of healing, when we forgive we create a space of unconditional love and grace. The pathway to oneness is connected through this force, without this bridge we will not achieve inner peace and global peace. As we forgive others for what they did to us, we literrally transcend our vibrations and start to attract more unconditional love and blessings to our lives. The power of this action is beyond measure, there is a rippling effect that happens when we choose to do this. We magnify our existence and manifest lovely experiences in our lifetimes. We learn to let go of the past, pain and heal our cellular memories.</p>
<p>The Universe will surely test and give us more situations that will trigger more unforgivenes, until we truly get the lesson behind this situation which is unconditional love. The hidden gem is all about our love for ourselves. If we truly love ourselves, we will not allow thoughts that will harm us in anyway. When we withold love, we create lower vibration that are emotions like guilt, anger, revenge, resentment, anxiety, within our consciousness and thus create stress in our health and being. We become hard on ourselves and we create an armor around our hearts. Our hearts become a perfect ground to breed unwanted feelings and negative emotions. These emotions ruts in our hearts and our souls are stuck in this darkness. We become victims of our own consciousness and when this happen we are separated from our Source. The Source is about love, unity and harmony. We are not here to experience pain and sufferings but to be in the space of love and grace.</p>
<p>We forget who we are, we are spiritual beings in our human suits, all of our dramas are our own creations because we attract who we are inside our hearts. When we see beyond our pain and see the bigger picture we will know that we are all in the same boat. That we all experience these situations in our lifetimes, the question is do we ever get the lessons that we are trying to learn? We all have conscious choices to make in this lifetime, to live a happy life or to be stuck in this negative situation within ourselves and others. Let us wake up and take responsibility for the state of our consciousness and our hearts.</p>
<p>Blaming others for our state of mind is not going to help us in the present moment. Like the bite of a snake, the bite is long gone but we still suffer the venom of the snake&#8217;s bite. We are caught in the poison of the snake, this is the venom of this unforgiveness path. We create more pain by holding this crooked path in our existence. The garden of our hearts is like a landscape, we need to weed out bad weeds like ill feelings and grudges in order to reap good fruits in our harvest. Forgiving the past is not easy but when we want to move forward, we choose to forgive then let go of the past. Focus on your chosen path and follow your heart. This is the return to home, your heart is where your home is. </p>
<p>This is our Sacred Contract, to be with this certain person to experience pain and forgiveness. In the bigger picture, without this situation we are not going to learn the lesson of forgiveness. When we start to see things as is and send blessings to the enemy so to speak, we find this inner peace deep within our hearts, we feel light and we are in the space of grace and Divine&#8217;s love. Only through this dark nights of our souls we can achieve true forgiveness and learn the lesson. If we keep denying our own pain and blaming others for how we feel, we will just go in a circle of drama and we keep attracting the same situation with different actors so to speak.</p>
<p>We transcend our pain by forgiving and letting go of this negative karma, we allow the space and power of healing our hearts. We become co creator of our lovely and happy experiences. We choose to empower ourselves and allow our selves to expand into this beautiful creation of God whoever God is for you. We learn to trust the flow of love into our experiences and we become happier in our existence when we connect to the Akashic Records of our souls. This is the secret path to tap into the Akashic Records. We can not touch this when we have unforgiveness in our existence because the heart of our human collective consciouseness is in the realm of our souls. We can only go through the high vibrations of our souls when we connect to the Source of our existence. Our souls vibrate in the frequency of love and light and we have to be align and congruent with our souls in order to have access to the Akashic Records. People are mistaken if they think that you have to be smart in order to access your Akashic Records, it&#8217;s actually the heart that needs to be pure to access this high frequency of vibration of love and light. God sees us beyond our mind&#8217;s perceptions, but within our heart&#8217;s lies the wisdom of our Source. This is the path of our return to home, where love is. There is no sense in holding pain, anger and resentment in our existence because we only give ourselves a more difficult path to thread to. </p>
<p>Let us forgive ourselves first in order to experience true forgiveness for others. We don&#8217;t need to be with them but to allow the space of grace and love within our being. It creates a new pattern of experiences and we become more align to manifest our dreams in this lifetime. Let us live in the present moment consciously choosing to forgive. &#8221; I now declare to the Universe and Source that I&#8217;m forgiving others who consciously or unconsciously had hurt me in the past and I also ask others to forgive me for hurting them consciously or unconsciously through my thoughts, words and actions, let it be done. May the flow of grace and love be with me in this lifetime. Amen.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Virgin Archetype Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 20:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2012/01/03/virgin-archetype-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>The virgin archetype is quite an interesting one, you would think this has to do with virginity only but actually it has more issues than that. Archetypes are not only about physical expression, it is also energetic and there are many ways that they manifest. This archetype touch the collective consciousness and in the temple days the ladies are actually not virgin but they consider themselves as virgin because nobody can control them, they are in control. The truth that is hidden in this archetype is about power and control, not only of their virgin territories, virgin ideas or thoughts, their sexuality on how they want to be in control, to prevent them from having  an intimate union with another person.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost to the detrimental of having fear about their own bodies and feelings of guilt that they are not perfect and not good enough to be with someone. It creates an illusion that they are in control of their bodies but it actually becomes an escape for intimacy. They become dependent of the need for approval of their bodies and they want the illusion that they are in control of their temple and that this will make them become respected by others. It is an ego in a form of control of their bodies. The obsession of the body and control is the shadow of this archetype and it can be transcended once the person becomes aware of the energetic component of this archetype.</p>
<p>Looking through the temple of their bodies, they carry the separation from others on how they intimately see and feel the world. The Virgin archetype has an intense inner focus. She is spiritually orientated and more concerned with the inner world than the outer world. She is now making a come back as women everywhere are beginning to follow their own hearts and dreams to manifest a reality other than that of partnerships, motherhood and child rearing. Often they are unmarried, but this did not mean that they were necessarily asexual. In fact, some of the virgin goddesses expressed their sexuality openly, owning their sexuality proudly and without shame. It was not given away or bartered or owned by their partners, it was wholly and solely within their dominion.</p>
<p>The union of body and spirit is not experience due to hiding behind the shadow of this virgin archetype. One has to realized that they need to have balance and intimate union with their own self to know that this can be transcended and learn the spiritual lesson of this archetype to fully function and become intimate with another soul. You have to know the fragmented parts of your archetypes that you are afraid to face or learn. Everything is about evolution and power, the path to finding the positive in the negative shadow of your archetypes will help you in learning the soul&#8217;s purpose. Every soul is different and you have to personalize the lesson and ask yourselves series of questions to help you figure out what is the lesson behind this archetype. Aks things that you are afraid of facing, what are your fears? what are the things that you are called to do and not to do? What is the pattern of this archetype? What can I do to help myself transcend this archetype and learn the lesson? It is about discovering your archetypal energy and how you can transcend them into positive light to help yourself become wholesome and bring light to your shadows.</p>
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		<title>Prostitute Archetype Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 21:46:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>&#8220;I declare to the Universe that I&#8217;m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!&#8221;</p>
<p>This archetype is not only about sexuality but it&#8217;s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It&#8217;s usually when one doesn&#8217;t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/12/22/prostitute-archetype-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>&#8220;I declare to the Universe that I&#8217;m a co creator of my empowered life and I take full responsibility for everything that comes to me acknowledging my truth, inner strength, loving, forgiving and peaceful soul co creating this tapestry of my abundant life. Be it done!&#8221;</p>
<p>This archetype is not only about sexuality but it&#8217;s actually more about spirituality and how one stays in a relationship or situation that sells their spirit short. It&#8217;s usually when one doesn&#8217;t want to leave a comfort zone and thinks that survival is the easiest way to live this world. Most of married women are actually carrying these Archetypal energy. When they are not happy in their partnerships but feel they have to stay because of their survival.</p>
<p>Self empowerment is a gift, knowing your prostitute archetype is a tool when you can transcend this energy. One realizes that the spirit is more important than all of these material stuff and dependency that we surround ourselves with. What&#8217;s important is the relationships that are loving and truthful, when we stop denying and pretending that we are happy with the other person or situations that we are involve with. We open oourselves to honest, peaceful and loving relationships with our own self and others.</p>
<p>What makes a person to sell his spirit short? The root of this is fear of the unknown, when you are afraid to be who you are, you attract this fear and creates a shadow that blinds you to your truth, which is your spirit or light. When one is in the survival mode and can not find the inner strength to live the truth. It is an illusion of your true self, denying the power that resides within you. You are afraid to become big and empowered. One finds inner strength and becomes a true peaceful warrior of the light when he realizes that his inner spirit is more important to materialism. It doesn&#8217;t only involve materials it can also becomes a dependency to relationships that are harmful to your soul&#8217;s evolution.</p>
<p>This archetype teaches you to find your voice, to know your true self which is your spirit. When you align the mind with your heart you create the authenticity of your soul. Becoming conscious of your choices, that every single choice that we make will affect everything in our present moment. Finding your voice or self expression that will lead to your highest potential and highest good. You become open to what is and create expansion in your existence. You live outside the box and connect to your soul&#8217;s purpose. You enlighten your mind in all aspects of your attachments with materials and others. You become a free spirit.You thrive in all of those that you touch, with endurance, integrity and honor code that you make between you and your God whoever is your God. </p>
<p>The truth is about discovering your self and knowing what you truly desires and living your soul&#8217;s purpose. The situation is here to serve you to see the bigger picture of your life. When you shift your perspective this way, you use the situation to help and empower you to become who you are suppose to be. Use it like a compass in finding your inner strength. Forgive those who have harmed you and surrender to the Divine calling of your life. You have so many graces to receive  when you face your challenges and honor your integrity. When you meditate and clear your emotional fields one can find inner peace with the situation. It helps to be at peace and it&#8217;s useless to blame anyone for where you are at because this situation happens to help you find your truth and it doesn&#8217;t help you if you are stuck in blaming others. Take the responsibility for yourself because you are always a co creator of anything that comes to you.</p>
<p>Miracles take place when you surrender everything to God, love is the only true power that we have. Everything else is an illusion. When your heart is open, you open your life to all the possibilities that you want to experience. Trusting and having that leap of faith that everything that happens is for all the good of those who follow the will of God. We are just instruments in this lifetime, we are ask to see beyond illusions and become conscious of our creations. See the gifts that you have inside and follow your heart. The wisdom lies inside this heart that beats as one. One with the Universal flow of life and connects to the Universal Mind of God. </p>
<p>The ability to heal this prostitute archetype is know where and what is the pattern of your disempowerment. When you discover the truth and accept that you have been going through this energy of selling short your spirit, you will find some light in the areas that you need to acknowledge where you are stuck. Acceptance is an important factor in healing because you are not stuck in denial, then you can face the truth without shame or guilt. Being hard on yourself is not going to help you but truly, being kind and compassionate towards yourself is the key to freedom of your spirit. Forgiveness for others and forgiving yourself for whatever happend in the past and living in the present moment will transform your mind, body and heart consciousness. </p>
<p>It is time to shift this prostitute to what is our truth with the Universal flow of love and forgiveness between all of us. We all have harmed each other in some ways that we are unconscious. Let us unite our consciousness in one field of love and light. When we shift this separation, we feel connected to the Universal power and we are empowered sentient beings experiencing the Divine flow of love and peace. Together we can make a difference in this world and be a powerful soul family in our evolution to becoming a dynamic, universal, progressive, conscious sentient beings in our planet Earth.<br />
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		<title>Victim Archetype Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 01:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p><img class="aligncenter" title="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-wfT14Mnb3To/S3b9SpHtq4I/AAAAAAAAAMw/Mf2NMYlFkgo/s400/Solar_eclips_1999_4_NR.jpg" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-wfT14Mnb3To/S3b9SpHtq4I/AAAAAAAAAMw/Mf2NMYlFkgo/s400/Solar_eclips_1999_4_NR.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="394" />&#8221; I declare to the Universe that I am empowered, conscious, compassionate, loving sentient being that is experiencing unconditional love and inner peace within myself and others. I now create my conscious choices with full alignment and congruency to my Universal highest potential.&#8221;</p>
<p><span>This is the archetype that wakes up our consciousness to self empowerment. Experiencing pain and sufferings through our cloudy senses, we lose our spirit. We become focus on our mundane relationships with others and see all the negative things that doesn&#8217;t work for us. We become the victims of circumstances and blame others for our</span>&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/12/10/victim-archetype-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p><img class="aligncenter" title="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-wfT14Mnb3To/S3b9SpHtq4I/AAAAAAAAAMw/Mf2NMYlFkgo/s400/Solar_eclips_1999_4_NR.jpg" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-wfT14Mnb3To/S3b9SpHtq4I/AAAAAAAAAMw/Mf2NMYlFkgo/s400/Solar_eclips_1999_4_NR.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="394" />&#8221; I declare to the Universe that I am empowered, conscious, compassionate, loving sentient being that is experiencing unconditional love and inner peace within myself and others. I now create my conscious choices with full alignment and congruency to my Universal highest potential.&#8221;</p>
<p><span>This is the archetype that wakes up our consciousness to self empowerment. Experiencing pain and sufferings through our cloudy senses, we lose our spirit. We become focus on our mundane relationships with others and see all the negative things that doesn&#8217;t work for us. We become the victims of circumstances and blame others for our failures or mistakes in order to feel superior or better than the rest of humanity. We get entangled with this unending web of cycles and our Karmic bond within our lineage gets passed on from generations to generations without knowing our participation in this Karmic bondage.</span></p>
<p><span>As a sexual victim, the trespassing of my father became my pain body and relieving this broken trust every time I&#8217;m in a relationship. There was a sense of hidden and unconscious revenge and anger towards men. I wasn&#8217;t aware that unconsciously, I didn&#8217;t know how to receive love. I keep attracting the same pattern of woundedness and I have to suffer the pain of not being able to feel loved. Until one day when I was in hypnosis workshop and we did a muscle testing that it was revealed to me that I have a problem receiving love. This awareness became my guide towards my healing. I realized that my heart is not open in receiving the most important of all human gifts which is unconditional love. They always say you can not give love if you don&#8217;t love yourself but first you have to know that you are doing it to yourself. What is a sign that you don&#8217;t know how to receive love? You create broken relationships with others and you don&#8217;t know why this cycle keeps repeating itself, like a broken record.</span></p>
<p>When you are in this victim consciousness, you feel separated or alienated, that you don&#8217;t belong and that others are there to harm you. There is a sense of putting the blame to others, you become aloof of others who try to be close to you. There is no sense of trust and you like to be alone. Blaming and projecting to others what their faults are is not going to help you in anyway, looking within and facing your pain will finally release you from the attachments with others. You will be the master of your soul and live your heart&#8217;s desires. Looking at the bigger picture, you will see that the victim is just an archetypal energy that humanity has to go through as a survival mechanism. When you befriend and transcend this energy you will be self empowered to be your best and live your soul&#8217;s purpose. We live in this collective consciousness and we are part of this humanity but we all have the choices to choose which path to thread. Sacred Contracts are created in the blueprint of your soul, they are here to manifest in your existence to help you transcend this lifetime into being and tapping into your highest potential.</p>
<p><span>We continue being a victim as long as we don&#8217;t recognize that we are the magnet of the situations. When we wake up so to speak, we become aware of the patterns and we need to rewire the way we think things through. But we can&#8217;t change the way we think with the same mind that created it so we need to transform or shift our consciousness, by clearing  our blockages and being aware of our heart and emotional vibration. When we are in the victim consciousness we are in the negative or lower vibrations of our emotions. These are emotions like anger, anxiety, pain, frustrations, anything that harms and disconnects us to our truth and peaceful state of mind.</span></p>
<p><span>The paradox of this archetype is that we become the light and goddess of our own shadow or fear. The part of us that is victimized is actually the tool that we can turn it around and use it as a tool to help others become over comer like us. We learn to transcend our blockage and Sacred contract to finally learn the spiritual lesson that we are here to know. There is always a spiritual lesson behind a problem and that is the door of opportunity knocking to help us transcend whatever obstacles we encounter.</span></p>
<p><span>In my experiences, I ask the help of Ascended Master St. Germaine and the Violet flame to help transmute this negative energy to become self empowered and conscious light being. When we ask help from our Ascended Masters and spiritual guides we open our flow to this energetic fields of vibrations. Our higher self connects and we receive the guidance and wisdom that they give us. Opening our <span>Akashic</span> Records to help us guide our soul&#8217;s journey is a powerful tool of enlightenment. When I open and connect to the <span>Akashic</span> Records, my path becomes clear and free of negative vibrations and energy. Clearing my consciousness and directing me to the path of a peaceful and joyful life.</span></p>
<p>There is a contract that needs to reconcile with this victim consciousness and you have the power to do it. Have the courage to face your fear and do it anyway. Look at the other person as your mirror and become powerful to see the light and share it to other victims who are still in their shadows. Things happen to you in order to transcend your shadow and become the radiant light of this world. When we are aware of our shadows and embrace our ego we become one with the world and others. Our Earth is our school for our spiritual lessons and let&#8217;s walk this path towards our truth and love. There is only love and fear is but our shadow to hide beneath this radiant light that we are.</p>
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		<title>Catalysts of our souls</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2011 00:22:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>Relationships with another person is a catalyst for knowing your truth, essence and spirit. When we are in a relationship, we bare our souls. We find things that the other person triggers in us, what is hidden within us that we are not aware of. When this happens we are tapping into our subconscious mind. We are about vibrations, waves of particles vibrating in a scale of low or high frequency magnetizing to us the same frequency that we are sending. When we talk about energy our partners in life have the same wavelength of what we are sending&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/11/05/catalysts-of-our-souls/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>Relationships with another person is a catalyst for knowing your truth, essence and spirit. When we are in a relationship, we bare our souls. We find things that the other person triggers in us, what is hidden within us that we are not aware of. When this happens we are tapping into our subconscious mind. We are about vibrations, waves of particles vibrating in a scale of low or high frequency magnetizing to us the same frequency that we are sending. When we talk about energy our partners in life have the same wavelength of what we are sending so to speak. Our inner filters attracts and create who and what we have in our physical reality. When other person is acting in a manner or situation that we deem negative. It is actually a sign for us to stop and reflect on what this person is bringing into our attention.</p>
<p>Relationships are Sacred Contracts and we are here to teach each others spiritual lessons. They came to us to find our truth and to wake us up from our deep sleep or from our unconscious state. When we look at relationships this way we learn to easily let go of blame and we can find a space of forgiveness. Pain dissipates as we learn to let go of our attachments and expectations to what did not happen or our attention shifts to the lessons that we learn for the better.</p>
<p>When one is still in the victim consciousness and would not change or move forward then the other party who is align to love becomes self empowered to move on and create a higher vibration of love and light. We need to know the dynamics of energy in relationships to become empower. The different roles or Archetypal energies that we play. Ask questions that will reveal to you where in your childhood this person reminds you of and what kind of feelings are evoke? Is there any emotional trauma that needs healing or to be reconcile with your own self? What are the current theme or patterns that are being created? Where there is ego there is shadow, hidden behind the conflict or chaos. Because love has no shadow but only speaks of the truth.</p>
<p>When we become self aware that the other person, may it  be a family member or lover is here to bring us closer to our truth and heal our wounds, we become enlightened. There is always a choice and the freedom of our spirit to chose which path we are going to take. As we heal, we remember that we are impermanent transient beings and uncertain of all relationships. We have to power to choose what we want to experience. Most of the time when we are in a relationship that is not healthy for us, we become blind or in denial and we don&#8217;t seem to know the answer how to get out of the painful situation. We need the support of others who are there for us and can see beyond the drama. Surrender to the situation and learn the lesson, let go of old ways of thinking and shift to a more graceful flow of experiences. Choose love and compassionate way to treat others just like yourself. The truth is that we are all suffering in the same way, we are in the collective consciousness of our present human conditioning. As we are shifting into this enlightened era of our evolution, we become lighter to our selves and others. We don&#8217;t create drama and we let go of who is right or wrong. We want to live to be happy and conscious human beings.</p>
<p>This is the gift to see in every relationships that we have, that we are here to experience love and not fear. When we are awake and aware of our essence, we start to notice that our relationships are more evolve full of love and happiness. We become more involve with their well being and not for what we can get from them. We empower others in their souls paths, serving and sharing what we receive from this abundance world. We are one in the grand scheme of things. We have to create an intention to live consciously and to shift our patterns of thinking. &#8220;I am conscious, loving, joyful, and peaceful being experiencing all that is good. I am one with the flow of the Universal mind, energetically aligned to my highest potential and recalibrating my DNA to my multi dimensional soul blueprint of my existence. Today I bring forth a new manifestation of my creative self. Opening my heart and reconnecting to the Source of love and light. Bringing healing in my consciousness and creating a loving present moment with passion, inspiration and self empowerment.</p>
<p>The healing of relationships take place in the blueprints of our souls as we evolve in this conscious world, we become a co creator of our Universal mind. Our collective consciousness becomes one in all and everything is one in the now. The movements of our planets, galaxies and multi universes inter relates within  our electromagnetic fields. We experience blissful soul journeys creating a peaceful world. Our fears dissipate and we begin to love unconditionally. Our history becomes imprinted in the Akashic fields and create a new path of healing for humanity. There is no other, we are one, one within and one with all that is. Our fractal selves become one living conscious Universal self. We are souls in many multi universes of these parallel lives that we live simultaneously evolving and transcending. There is no time and space in eternal time. We can travel, be there and be here at the same moment of time and space. This is the new perceptions of the conscious mind radiating light beyond shadows and penetrating all that is. The beauty of every passing moment is the knowing that all is one and knowing that we are here to experience this beauty of love.</p>
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		<title>Saboteur Archetypal Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 06:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>What is your Saboteur archetypal energy in your life patterns? This is the energy that somehow keeps repeating itself in a cycle of events or karma that eventually will keep coming up until you get the spiritual lesson behind these experiences. One can only see through others when one can see through his own self and shadow. What is the point of helping others if he himself can&#8217;t help his own self? We are one, a person will come into your space to mirror to you what you needed to learn in this lifetime. We can keep running&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/10/19/saboteur-archetypal-energy/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>What is your Saboteur archetypal energy in your life patterns? This is the energy that somehow keeps repeating itself in a cycle of events or karma that eventually will keep coming up until you get the spiritual lesson behind these experiences. One can only see through others when one can see through his own self and shadow. What is the point of helping others if he himself can&#8217;t help his own self? We are one, a person will come into your space to mirror to you what you needed to learn in this lifetime. We can keep running away from this lesson but this will come back in a different form or situation. The difference between us is nothing but we are all just a space occupying this fields of perceptions and projecting to us what we are inside. When I start seeing from my heart&#8217;s perspective, all I see and feel is love. The fear dissipates and allow light to penetrate our hearts. Releasing the pain body, allowing emotions to arise from the deepest seat of the soul.</p>
<p><span>Our Saboteurs are here to highlights our fear and empower us to the changes that we need to do to reconcile us to our truth. To have courage and boldness that there is more to life than all of these illusions. We are too busy analyzing what&#8217;s right or wrong that we get caught in the drama of pain and entanglement. Freedom of spirit is when you can  rise up to the occasion of the drama and say this is enough. We are here to face what we have and grow from here. To open the doors of our hearts and allow our souls to blossom. Love is precious and don&#8217;t take it for granted. If we put our thoughts in the midst of our hearts and allow this space of love we will understand why we are in this negative situation once again. Calling us to empower and live our essence. There is only love and fear, realizing that fear is not going to help us become who we are suppose to be light workers in this lifetime, we need to wake up from all illusions and be strong for our souls purpose. We are given situations to rise up and not stay in the dark, integrate the shadow, acknowledge the mistake and grow from it. We will never rise up if we keep repeating the same mistake and pattern of our own illusions. Let us light each others path to our true light then we can feel true fulfillment in our true hearts desires.</span></p>
<p>Our own saboteur is our own self, we are blind to our illusions because we identify with our ego. When we are in fear, we can not see the light, we are blinded by the truth. The truth will set us free but this takes a shift from our own ego and self destructive behaviour. Whatever that is you are adding to your authentic self just like addictions to food, drugs, sex, alcohol or anything that brings in pleasure to take away the pain of facing your truth. These are the portals that this Saboteur Archetypal energy exist between our midst. When we try to hide our truth and acts like everything is normal or pleasurable, we deny ourselves of true healing. Our pain body emotionally eats us away, we become out of tune and stays in the lower vibrational fields of emotions like negative, fear, anxiety and worry. This is not our truth, we are loved. The most painful of all the things that we do is to destroy our true essence when we put ourselves in chaotic situations. Nobody deserves to be in suffering, we can only shift when we acknowledge that we have our problems and that we have the power to choose what we want to see in our destiny.</p>
<p>The way to our truth is to face our own shadow, release blaming others for whatever situations we are in because it is always our choice to be in this disposition. When we recognized that we have the power to do so, to change and let go, we encourage change in our lives. We have to empower to shift and turn this destructive force into inner peace. Releasing attachments to whatever that is disturbing our inner peace and finally realizing that it takes one step to journey into peace. We don&#8217;t help others when we stay in a relationship that is not healthy, we become enablers of their mistakes. We can only lead them into the light and better actions when we ourselves become strong enough to leave the situations, facing fear in the face and truly forgiving others for this conflict. Forgiving our own selves for being in a chaotic relationships with others. Let go of guilt this emotion only leads to lower vibrations and the only way to transcend this is to acknowledge that you feel guilty but ready to allow love back into your space.</p>
<p>We are all going through this emotional and mental releasing and clearing of our fields as we shift vibrationally into our higher selves. Our higher selves that we are connecting needs to clear all of our hidden lower vibrations such as fear, anger, pain, sufferings, negative and destructive behaviors and many others. We are in the path of enlightenment and many are called to take this path of spiritual warrior. To be vessels of love and light, we have to be clear of all shadows and ego. To be able to hold this high vibrations of love, we become one in all our thoughts, words and deeds. We are the Akashic Records healers of this lifetime. We bring others to their true path of light workers. Don&#8217;t be discourage of the challenges that are in your fields. As we transcend this lifetime, we release all that is not of light and we radiate this true light wherever we are. Because this is our truth, to help others in their path of healing and light. We are free spirit, loving, compassionate, kind sentient beings who is in the path of oneness.</p>
<p>Blessings!</p>
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		<title>Energy expands and contracts within our consciousness</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2011 20:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mind Consciousness]]></category>
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<p>We are in this matter and form of energy in our body consciousness within the cellular level of our cellular tissues, fibers, memories and consciousness. Our manifestations and existence is here within the energetic substance of our blueprint in the subconscious level of our mind consciousness and deep layers of unknown territories. Our perceptions of the world within our selves define the summation of our experiences and projections in our everyday lives. When we are awake to this consciousness we become align to all that is and it brings us to the present moment of what our spiritual&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/09/25/energy-expands-and-contracts-within-our-consciousness/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>We are in this matter and form of energy in our body consciousness within the cellular level of our cellular tissues, fibers, memories and consciousness. Our manifestations and existence is here within the energetic substance of our blueprint in the subconscious level of our mind consciousness and deep layers of unknown territories. Our perceptions of the world within our selves define the summation of our experiences and projections in our everyday lives. When we are awake to this consciousness we become align to all that is and it brings us to the present moment of what our spiritual lessons are at this very moment.</p>
<p>When we think inside the box, we are contracting this Universal energy within our own perceptions of the world and we lose touch to our expansive selves. It is what it is, in order to expand we need to contract just like anything else in this world. The only way to expand our mind consciousness is to experience what does contraction means. This is when we become like puppets of our own thought patterns and unconscious negative beliefs about our own existence. Our society, beliefs, religious doctrines, media, banking and politics, economy all of these are our man made perceptions of what the world should be and influences us in our ways of thinking in big ways. To get inner peace we have to dig deeper in our subconscious level and see how we operate in our patterns of thinking.</p>
<p>Thinking outside the box, we need to have a quiet mind and totally be in that space of peace. In order to achieve this, first we need to know about our disorderly lives, chaotic and corrupt mind. We can not shift if we didn&#8217;t recognize that our mind is always chaotic because of the voices that continually comes and goes within our mind consciousness. Like a ghost that haunts you in the middle of the night, you have no other choice but be at peace within your own self to find solace in this predicament. We are souls within this confinement or box in our head. The ego speaks so loud we can barely hear our truth and crushes our spirit. Meditation is a tool to finally see the works of our thoughts and release them that they are just thoughts and not to be identify with what they are talking about. They are usually there because of our previous experiences, we somehow  needed these voices to protect us from harm.  Now that you are empowered in the soul level, these voices had served their purpose and it&#8217;s time to let go of their false power. The only power that holds truth is love and not fear.</p>
<p>Our mind needs to be in this state of peace in order to bring order in our lives. The silent mind can bring about this shift and complete order. How would our mind can be free of fear? Total change and order does not exist within the field of mind consciousness because our mind is corrupt and we need to shift in different level of dimension. When one lives in disorder,  how can one sees itself? This is when meditation helps us to see the movement of thoughts and the mind must be in absolute quiet space to bring about order. Thoughts create fear and when we are responsible for our own thoughts we become free. This freedom has responsibility and implies order, our mind then demands freedom and discipline. To learn not to conform what others or society wants you to be.  We have the freedom from being confined and contracted but be align to our expansive selves.</p>
<p>When our mind consciousness expands outside the constrictions of our box, we tapped into the vast Universal account of our Source. We become limitless in infinite possibilities of  our highest potentials, expansive and living in multi dimensional Universes of our existence. We become soul empowered beings operating within our hearts, burning in fire and passion for this light to shine. We tapped into our subconscious fields of our mind and co create with our Divine souls life full of love and light. Cleared of dramas and conflicts within our own selves and others. This is the fields of the Akashic Records, we become clear of our Karmas and our level of vibrations is accelerated to it highest frequency. We elevate into our higher consciousness, grounded to bring this light for others to know that there is this space of love and light. This remembrance of our souls is the expansive energy that operates within our own souls when we are open and become an observant of our present moment.</p>
<p>Ask questions that will invoke changes in your fields of energy like asking what is the pattern that needs to be release and am I ready to release this negative thought patterns? This would open awareness of your unconscious negative thought patterns, remembering that you are the magnet of the situation and no one to blame for. The other person is just a projection of your unconscious thoughts. Ask yourself if you are ready to face your fear and have the courage to feel the deepest truth underlying the core issue of the cyclical patterns of your life. Learn to stop and listen what your inner thoughts are and realized that whatever you see in others is what you have inside yourself. Everything is a reflection of your self. The answer lies deep within and this would bring light to your shadows and be one with others in their own shadows. Then, we can self realized that we are all one in this field of consciousness. That they are you and you are they. Seek the silence and look within, then comes the change in your heart increasing compassion for your own self and others. Understanding humanity where they are and not attending to fear and separation but putting attention to love, commitment and intention to be in harmonious relationship with your self and others. When you are empowered to believe in the unknown, the force and power of the Universe is with you in all aspects of life. Our emotional awareness and responsible choices towards authentic power will bring us to this space of what is. Going with the flow of abundance and harmonious living, consciously aware of our powerful existence we become in tune to the Universal Laws. Our contraction serves in knowing our expansive selves in the Universal fields of life to be who we are suppose to be serving others and loving our existence in this multidimensional living.</p>
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		<title>The more I know I think, the less I know more</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2011 18:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
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<p>We live in this paradoxical world and dualism, when I thought I knew more that&#8217;s when the Universe gives me situations that challenges the truth in me. I found out that I know less when I&#8217;m letting go of the ego and truly looking inside of me what is it that bothers and clearly points it out to me that the thing that I see in another person is truly what I have inside of me,  only I was too busy looking at others mistakes and form. What I found out is that when I back off and&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/09/09/the-more-i-know-i-think-the-less-i-know-more/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>We live in this paradoxical world and dualism, when I thought I knew more that&#8217;s when the Universe gives me situations that challenges the truth in me. I found out that I know less when I&#8217;m letting go of the ego and truly looking inside of me what is it that bothers and clearly points it out to me that the thing that I see in another person is truly what I have inside of me,  only I was too busy looking at others mistakes and form. What I found out is that when I back off and put my self in the space of no judgement but just is. I realized that my perceptions are  about myself not about the other person. The things that irritates me are actually the things that I can&#8217;t let go or things that I&#8217;m trying to control and manipulate or it can also be the things that scares and challenges me.</p>
<p>This space can only be reached when one recognized that there is disharmonious, in congruent  and chaotic emotions and thoughts that are happening in your body, mind and spirit. Awareness is a big part of this space, once recognized then the space of awareness magnifies and becomes more present. Allowing this observer and awareness to lead the observant or actor which is you as you have the control to lead this drama into play. The other person is the  participant of the drama and suppose to be your catalyst to self realized that there is a space of awareness that you can be when there is a drama. As an observer you have to listen to all the communications that are being said and listen to body gestures. When you listen open your heart to oneness and don&#8217;t feel that you are separated from the other person&#8217;s point of view just let it be and completely surrender to this space of no judgement.</p>
<p>As you listen you will find more space to allow the other person to open his heart more to you and be able to talk from the heart. Allowing this space of unconditional love gives expansion to the other person that he feels he is not being judged but being validated. Validation is a big part of the game of the ego. When someone is in the pain body, they are coming from fear and want others to validate their existence even using negative attention because that is the only way they know to get validation from others that they belong. Belonging and trusting others to love you for your existence is not easy to fulfill because of all the layers of masks and denial that we play. Detach from the drama and knowing that you are the space of awareness to help transcend the situation given to you. You empower yourself and choose inner peace instead of separation. By detachment we remember that everyone has their own world or dream so whatever drama is being played it is not yours but for you to listen and help the other person to see the light or the lesson of the drama. This gives inner peace for both of you and the relationship that is being given to transcend. Breaking down the walls around your hearts and completely releasing that is not of light and putting this light into the shadows of your illusions and ego.</p>
<p>Finding the center of your heart and focusing on what will raise the vibration of this relationship helps you and others to find peace. The raising of the consciousness of humanity needs other peaceful warriors to lead in the darkness. As we evolve in our human consciousness we are asked to be more responsible for our own thoughts, words and actions. We can&#8217;t let chaos disturb our inner peace. By being heart centered, focus on our souls purpose guided by our spiritual guides we become more strong and courageous in our existence. We become the leaders of this dark age and help others see the light within themselves. Opening our hearts to whoever is in our present moment be it a poor beggar, a politician, businessman, nurse or whatever roles they are portraying its just is a role that we are not to be identified. Because our truth is not about these roles that we play it&#8217;s about our spirit and heart. Without this compassion for others there would be no love only war and separation. Opening our hearts to understand more what is happening to the other person gives us more space to allow and become more at peace with our own existence.</p>
<p>Loving kindness have to start within our own selves as we can not give this to others if we don&#8217;t have it. Opening your heart and mind that the other person is not separated from  you but just is  a projection of your perception and consciousness.  When you see others like you and that there is no separation that means you are looking at others with a wholesome consciousness where there is no boundary but oneness in the Universal flow of energy. This compassionate wisdom then will lead you to becoming one with the whole humanity. We are one in the spirit and our souls are all in oneness with God whoever God is for you. Our higher consciousness is here aligning our selves to what is and becoming one in all aspects of our existence is the beauty of it all. When we connect to our Source, our highest potential is beyond our comprehension. We become a vessel of unconditional love and a space for others to feel love.</p>
<p>In our human evolution we are being face with all these situations of war, separation and chaos. As we dwell with our own little world of relationships with others, it becomes apparent to us that we are like mirrors of these global wars. We have chaos back and forth from our own selves  family, friends, co workers and many other relationships that we build. We have not come into this space of unconditional love and oneness. We are taking baby steps toward this enlightenment, but this light can only be filled within our own hearts and soul connection with others. As long as we keep putting our walls around our hearts we would not be able to see beyond the dramas that we are creating. We have to be aware of all our perceptions regarding others and our own selves. When one is looking from within and heart centered, one knows that we are all one is spirit and soul. The more we know from the heart the more we know we belong to each other.</p>
<p>Blessings!</p>
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		<title>Mirror of our fears</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Aug 2011 00:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Fear]]></category>
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<p>When you find yourself in a situation that doesn&#8217;t seem to resonate to your truth and all you keep thinking is that someone has done harm to you. Remember that the truth, is that the harm done to you is a mirror of your own fear. It&#8217;s an illusion in the form of a body. Your own consciousness is telling you that you&#8217;re not separate from the harm of a person or situation. Your subconscious is not tapped into your deepest realms of being. The core of our being is love and without love there&#8217;s only fear. Fear stems from self love&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/08/31/mirror-of-our-fears/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>When you find yourself in a situation that doesn&#8217;t seem to resonate to your truth and all you keep thinking is that someone has done harm to you. Remember that the truth, is that the harm done to you is a mirror of your own fear. It&#8217;s an illusion in the form of a body. Your own consciousness is telling you that you&#8217;re not separate from the harm of a person or situation. Your subconscious is not tapped into your deepest realms of being. The core of our being is love and without love there&#8217;s only fear. Fear stems from self love because we want to protect our selves from being harmed. We build this defense or wall of illusion within our fields to protect ourselves from being hurt again. Universal Laws don&#8217;t know about your illusions they only operate with the Universal fields of energetic imprints that we create. In these fields we create our own Akashic Records  and it brings us back to what spiritual lessons we are here to learn.</p>
<p>In my opinion, human beings are here to experience love and happiness. In our current state of mass unconsciousness we are asleep and operate in fear based on manipulations of our own ego. We forget what we came here for. Our lives are meant to be simple and to give and receive love, but we make it complicated because of our ego. When we are not aware that our ego tries to run our world then we become like stringed puppets to the voices in our head. These voices disconnect us with our spirits. They like to disturb our peace and create disharmonious relationships so that we alienate our truth. The only way we can detect the works of our ego is if we humble ourselves and realize that we don&#8217;t know everything and that there is a higher power beyond us. We must  listen,  integrate, and balance our head space for our lives to run smoothly just like a river that is quiet and still.</p>
<p>Our shadow is our compass to enlightenment.  Fear holds us back and blocks us from becoming who we are supposed to be. Awareness of this shadow brings us into a space of recognizing what is missing in our integration and holistic way of looking at life. Our integration and balance of our ego is what&#8217;s important for us to live in the present moment and be fulfilled. When we face our ego and fear we become more open to what is being given to us. We have to look at what is presented in our fields, then turn it around and look within yourselves to see that everything you see is within you and your perception. When we become attuned and open, we allow our healing and finally see what is deep within our creations. We become aware of the present moment and live with inner peace and feel self empowered. The Universe seems to find its way to give back to us. Until then we become blind to all our personal creations and magnetize the same situations in different forms or beings. We have an observer within us and this observant connects to all that is.  What we are experiencing depends on the filters and unconscious beliefs. Most negative unconscious beliefs stem from the voices in our head that we aren&#8217;t aware of while thinking and identifying that we are these voices, fool us of our truth and spirit.</p>
<p>How do we awake to all these voices? First we have to acknowledge that we have problems and that we are the cause of these events in our lives and that nobody else is. When we allow for these openings, we let go and we surrender our ego to the Higher power. We know deep within us that we are being guided to know ourselves and align into the Universal flow of life. When we allow this space of letting go, we create our vast expansive connection to what is. We become a space of unconditional love and we grow from our limited mind and open the vast space of our hearts to who we truly are. What is the roots of our fear? It is our own self ego or protection from our childhood false sense. We are free spirits occupying this form or body to create and experience life. What we fear are actually just illusions protecting us from hurt, we have the fear of the unknown. Once we recognize the voice of the protector we  realize our expansion. There is no such thing as fear, it is only a false ego appearing to be real. We are light and love. This can only be manifested when we become friends to our shadows and fear and when we embrace our own ego and integrate our free spirit to create a loving sense of life and self. Being intimate with our selves and loving unconditionally, create a space of vast connection to the Universal flow of life and abundance. We are bigger than our fears and use our mirrors to face them. Embrace and allow the power of love to create a magnificent life.</p>
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		<title>Love from a child</title>
		<link>http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/07/13/love-from-a-child/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 18:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>teza</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
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<p>This is the message that was given to me today by my neighbor &#8221; Love is something you should cherish, so let it stand, by your side and treasure it forever.&#8221; Wow! I can&#8217;t believe an angel in disguise will come knocking on my door. She gave me this painting and just touched my heart to the core. What a miraculous message that truly what I needed to hear right now. Isn&#8217;t this the truth when you ask it shall be given, and today the angels are just right in my neighborhood. I am in a vulnerable situation&#8230; <a href="http://thepurpleoasis.com/2011/07/13/love-from-a-child/" class="read_more">Read the rest</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>This is the message that was given to me today by my neighbor &#8221; Love is something you should cherish, so let it stand, by your side and treasure it forever.&#8221; Wow! I can&#8217;t believe an angel in disguise will come knocking on my door. She gave me this painting and just touched my heart to the core. What a miraculous message that truly what I needed to hear right now. Isn&#8217;t this the truth when you ask it shall be given, and today the angels are just right in my neighborhood. I am in a vulnerable situation of being in a relationship again and unconsciously guarded my heart not to be broken and feel pain. When you go to this soft place of vulnerability the easier way is to run away but you will end up running away from yourself. Relationships are actually about your intimate self, when my partner is telling me or projecting some kind of actions that I feel rejected then there is something that my self is rejecting other parts of myself. The other person is a mirror of your self so in order to understand yourself is to know what the other person is doing then turn it around, that this person is leading you to what he is projecting is something that is within you that brought this in the first place.</p>
<p>Life is a mirror, look around you, and you will see inside you! It&#8217;s an awesome feeling when you can be in the space of acceptance and allowing whatever comes up in your relationships with others be it a lover, family or strangers. It is a beautiful world that we live in when we are awake to these signs of revelation. It feels like a maze, puzzle but truly it is simple, we are magnets and whatever we attract or bring into our lives is just a reflection of ourselves. The hidden factor is us and we live in a paradoxical world. When you think it&#8217;s not about you it&#8217;s actually all about you so don&#8217;t kid yourself to what is in front of you. Stop pointing fingers to whose to blame, they are just mirrors of your self turned inside out. We are one holographic matrices, we create what we have in our plate and if you want to create a beautiful palette of art you begin the journey of the loving artist who is awake, aware and alive in the moment of creations. Let the dreamer in you become alive in the present moment creating dreams and visions that manifest right in your present moment is the miracle of this lifetime. We are in the magnificent shift of our ascension with our mother Earth and all her creations.</p>
<p>How can an eleven year old girl know the wisdom of the heart? it is timeless wisdom that she had tapped into and whatever reason she is in my life right now is a perfect dance of the Universal movements that wakes me up and shake me to the core of my heart and soul that this is what love is. Feeling the moment it presents to you, there is no other way but love and cherish because it is given to you. Not to others but you, you are the magnet of this love and together whoever is giving you this love, you need to wake up and smell the gift of love. Treasure it forever in your heart and soul, creating space that will allow this love to grow just like a flower that blooms, allow the bud of rose to bloom and smell the aroma of lovely roses bringing love, joy and bliss to your presence. We are these roses who longs to bloom in this magical moments of our lifetime. Take the precious time to appreciate these moments that we have, this is the only moment that matters right in your present life. Don&#8217;t take anything for granted, bless every person you meet and allow these gifts to bring you love and if there is pain. Accept, allow and stop resisting because it will only comes back to present itself again. Enjoy the presentation and let it go. Go with the flow of life, without attachment to the outcome or expectation, because expectation just leads to disappointments. Be free spirit in whatever you do, say or think.</p>
<p>Being free in spirit is joy, when you are able to see others in the eyes of the soul you have mastered this lifetime. You become the source of joy for others to experience pure love and joy. In our materialistic world we become so blind to see what true love is. To what really matters most in our lives. We are so bombarded with false illusions that we think we are, the ego that craves power and control. We cling to false indentification of our existence, we needed an image to present to the world that we are strong and that we are big. This is the hidden message of our false ego, when we need to magnify a problem, we are putting attention to what is fear. It is love that we need to magnify, put attention to and then we are able to be in inner peace.  This space of allowing whatever the other person is giving you and needing attention is all about themselves. Don&#8217;t take their garbage it&#8217;s not  yours, you don&#8217;t need to react to others stuff but be center and know that you are love and that this person who needs negative attention is just is, they need love. If we are in the space of love, we can see through the problem, there is no such thing as problem they are actually doors of opportunities knocking on your door to become the master of your soul. Then you can practice the Zen part of your meditation, you can actualize the potential of your meditative self. You become the space of love, for peace to enter in others fields and awareness. We are one in this space when one surrenders to what is. As a spiritual master you become the essence of forgiveness, surrender and allowing the space of healing souls to magnify their existence in the midst of brokenness. Love is truly something we should cherish!</p>
<p>Namaste!</p>
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